When I gave my first bj, I thought I knew it all. Wrong! I had a couple of girl friends who had done it and they "taught" me. Also, I had used my hand on my bf and had tasted his cum, wasn't all that bad. I was so ready to give head. Well, it didn't work so well. When he went off in my mouth, it was a heck of a surprise. I'll finish with the unladylike description: Slobbered all over myself.
Variety, variety, variety. In me. On me. It's all good. I can't believe any of us wants the same thing every time.
For me, swallowing became a very practical matter in my teen years. When you're giving your guy bj's in places like cars or the back rows of theaters, swallowing certainly avoids a mess you don't have to "explain" when you get home. These days, I'm delighted to swallow if he cums in my mouth; or, as some have said, if he wants to shoot on me, well have at it.
I adhere to the idea of not doing the same thing every time. So, like most, my preference is to have the cum in me (somewhere). But, there are times when the desire for variety takes over and I support my lover's wish to shoot it wherever he wants.
Leave the condom on please.
Leave the condom on please.
I have so may times that I have to wonder: Sex between women who also have sex with men has become commonplace that I feel the term "bisexual" has become passe.
While my absolute favorite sexual activity is receiving oral from another woman, if I was forced to choose only one thing I could do, it would be to give to a woman. Not only is it a delight to give pleasure but, one also gets to savor the exquisite taste of her sweet pussy.
I thoroughly enjoy giving blow jobs and always have. The feel of a cock in my mouth is simply terrific. However, I sense a bit of negativity or unbelief in the tone of your question. So, here's a downside: After sex, trying to suck a guy back to life---now that's work.
I have been with two men a few times and thoroughly enjoyed it. I suppose I've avoided pain for a couple of reasons, one being that I will not do anal. There's no right or wrong on this matter, it simply is much too painful for me. So, for me it's vaginally and orally (and thrilling). The other reason I avoided pain is that I've never had double penetration in either my mouth or my vagina. And here the main reason is that the fellows I've been with seemed to think that if their cocks ever touched, that would instantly turn them into eternal and committed gay men.
We all accept the range of pain and blood in the loss of virginity is massive from a pinch and droplets to agony and a flood. Just a thought but: If I were writing a story, I might work backwards, meaning if the couple were madly in love, her "discomfort" might be easy. If, she was , clearly we are looking at agony while a one-night stand might be somewhere in the middle. Repeating-just a thought.
In a grassy area on the side of a neighbor's private swimming pool.
Never left home without panties but have gone to the ladies room and taken them off at times when it looked like the night might get interesting.
