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curiousandnaughty
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 67
Thailand

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the most common phrase used by Thais is 'Up To You' and it has a dual purpose...........it absolves the speaker of any responsibility if things go wrong and it's the Asian woman's way of making you think that the man is in charge. Clever girls
I have been offered a 'hall pass' by my wife and she often encourages me to go for it when she has her blood. Even says that she'll drop me off in the local red light district, but I have passed on it by saying that I will only have sex with another woman IF she is there with us. Also feel that there may have some secret agenda and could throw it back in my face at a future date. It's quite normal here in Thailand for the man to have 'mia nois' [little wives] and the big wife usually turns a blind eye to it as long as she and the kids are taken care of.
IMO, Moderation and control are the key words with drinking. Who wants to drink so much that they have blackouts and forget all the fun they had the night before?? and who would want to fuck a limp unresponsive body just to get your cock wet??
I learned that lesson at an early age and when I feel that 'loosing control' feeling, I slow down and pace myself. Sometimes I loose my wood if I drink too much. My wife would and has drunk herself into the state of puking, yet she gets uncontrollably horny and wants to suck, fuck and continue the party while reeking of alcohol and puke...................kind of a turn off for me.
She is finally taking my advise and has slowed her consumption down, but it's still a fine line that changes according to mood, environment, peer pressure and what she ate before drinking..............sometimes it's 4 or 5 drinks and sometimes it's 8 or 10 before 'the monster' shows
BTW.........like a lot of Asian girls, she conceived both her kids while drunk.
Not to be raciest, but after living in Asia for the last 25 years I can safely say that a lot of Asian women have a hard time 'respecting' the demon alcohol in that they blame a lot of [un planned] pregnancies in.......''I was drunk" and therefore the blame lies with the alcohol and not the drinker. I think that most of us westerners have that 'safety switch' , where [some of us] know when to stop. I slow down my consumption to the 'cusp of drunk', as you so aptly worded it Sirene.
As far as taking advantage of women who has drunk too much, I draw the line there as I have never taken advantage of a drunk woman and never will. Don't like a starfish...........
Pardon me if this has been discussed before, but I did try the search and a manual search and wasn't even sure where to post it. I'm a newbie here and hope to get some feedback on this topic..........'drunk sex'.
I've been with a few girls in my lifetimes and have had a lot of drunk sex, but mostly find it unsatisfying as it seems that there is a fine line where it turns from exciting to ugly. With my wife, she can be sexy and exciting for the first 4 or 5 drinks, then can turn into a jealous ugly monster with one drink too many. She can and would fuck anything or anyone after 8 or 9 drinks.
Just wondering what other's opinions are re: drunk sex.

hey, this is a great forum and I hope to share some true stories soon...........
Quote by overmykneenow
In my experience, girls who get off on make up sex also get off on fighting - it gets old pretty quick with me.

I came to this conclusion after a few months with someone who would start an argument as part of foreplay



Totally agree!! I've had women that would provoke a fight and then even if things didn't get settled/resolved, she would want to fuck and that's the last thing that I felt like doing, as I felt drained from the fight and sex was the last thing on my mind. Fighting is just not a turn on for me.
I like stories about teasing girls, exhibitionists, gangbang, GH, and more...............most things without pain or torture
If I could, I would in a flash, no hesitation or shame. Would be just like wanking myself and everyone does that, right. Question is, 'would you cum in your own mouth?'...................yeah, why not. The wife does it all the time and totally enjoys it, so there must be something about it.
I just wish that I was flexible enough to do it........
Funny how different we all are regarding sharing our wives. Our approach is to do it with strangers, NSA and keep it 'our little secret' and not get involved with the other parties. We would find it harder with a friend or even with someone in our mid sized city for fear that we would run into them........but, yes it was a big turn on watching her please another guy and I hope we can do it again.
Wife and I have used it as a fantasy for a few years when our sex life went into a slump, then made it a reality last year and it was all we had hoped for for years. We met a guy that wanted to join us on CL and once done, we got a lot of mileage out of the reality. She really loved getting split roasted and sucking two cocks.
We do have an agreement that if any other person is horny for 'strange' sex, we have to have one of us present. and so far, so good [knock on wood]. If anything, the new openness has strengthened our relationship and we get a little naughty a couple of times a year and that will hold us for a while.
Our latest fantasy is to arrange a small gang bang and I'm trying to think how I'll arrange it safely, discretely and fulfilling.