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Do any ladies agree that nudism can be very spiritual, and any ideas on how to convince people that it isn't just salacious or disgusting?
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cornodamore
Over 90 days ago
Fluid Male, 155
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Quite sad that my lady, lovely though she is, won't 'take care' of me unless we're going 'all the way' (as we used to say at school). She says it's too one-sided and not fair to her. Has a point I suppose, and I can't begrudge her. She makes up for it in other ways.
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?Hi, bi-male s-o-g. Have you any preference about point of view? I mean, would the person enjoying your small penis be a man or a woman, and would the story be told from his/her point of view or yours. Either way, it sounds a lovely idea, especially as you don't want humiliation. I'm always interested in any story that's based on enjoyment, and the innocent joy of sex, I might find it a nice story to write.
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Yes, I find them very sweet. It does make me want to see more as well, though, but then I'm just greedy.
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If only. She'd hate the concept, but I'd love to see her let go and enjoy herself. She would look lovely (She does anyway, but you know what I mean
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I agree with Ls63563. Escorts can be lovely people. Some advertise what they call Girl Friend Experience. In my experience they are very likely to understand that people have difficulties. I would also say go for it. If you find the right one she can really look after you. I wish you all the best.
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Sorry, I know this is a silly question, but I can't quite work out in the forum what's meant by 'the person above you'. I keep coming across it and I'm sure it should be obvious. Hope you don't mind me asking. corno
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I think anything that shows that my partner appreciates sex, is at home with her body and enjoys sensuality can only be good. I've only just started writing but I'm hoping that all my stories will show sex as something to be celebrated. I'm sorry you were embarrassed. It's probably a pipe-dream of mine, but it would be lovely to think of you both masturbating together, or even helping each other.
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Oh, yes. The closer I am to a lovely lady the more wonderful. I love to be surrounded by what I see, what I taste. Is the word Pheronomes, or is that something else. And yes, I do enjoy a blowjob too. I just love everything about human responses.
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Thanks. Julie. I'll look into it. I'll probably post some more stories here to see what people think. All best. Corno
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Hi. I've been practising erotic writing for some time, and I'm really glad to have discovered this group. I have some stories that I'd like to try publishing as e-books, say on Amazon. If I put them on LS would that mean I can't publish them anywhere else, or does my copyright notice mean I can? I'd be interested to know what you all do and what your experiences are. Thanks. Corno
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I'm probably too late to join in this one, but I have two ways of dealing with writer's block. One is that my first draft is usually rubbish anyway, and I accept that--I always say I start with a 'daft-draft'. The other, if I'm really struggling is simply to invent word games. eg I write 'word-rivers'. I invent a character and write down all the words they would use but other characters wouldn't, or words that would describe them. I find little word-exercises helpful. I've even been known to take an empty crossword from a magazine etc, and create an erotic crossword. That's a fun game and gets the juices going too.
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I haven't been here long and don't know whether I've actually commented on a pic. If I have a favourite 'part' it's probably bottoms. My favourite pictures aren't necessarily glamorous ones, but ones where a lady is looking very natural and where I feel she's really sharing her nakedness with me. I suppose I mean one that makes me feel close to her and intimate, not holding anything back.
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I love natural, but all three are tremendously exciting in their different ways. I'm just glad, and very humbled, that you ladies will share your treasures.
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Varies so much. Sometimes I just switch off into a sensuous haze. Sometimes I fantasise. Sometimes I pretend the hands are someone else's'. Sometimes I look forward to the next 'real thing'. Sometimes I try to invent new techniques or discover new places. Yes, even at seventy I'm learning new things, and believe me I've never lost the wonder of it all. Main thing is, I always enjoy it, usually try to make it last as long as possible. Do you mind if I imagine you and your husband together thinking about me next time? I shall be very respectful.
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When you masturbate, which do you enjoy most often, a quick relief, or a long, lingering 'self-massage'. I'm wondering if there's a gender preference, or if one lingers longer as one gets older. I'm a 'linger with languour' person, what about you? (I'd be interested to know if you're male. female, or trans etc, it's not always obvious from names, but of course you don't have to divulge if you don't want). Thanks
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For me it's the moment the panties roll/slide/slip off. The novelty never fades.
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Wow, black1, I didn't know this happened. This topic is proving so enlightening. It's confirming some ideas and giving me some dramatic surprises.
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Wow, black1, I didn't know this happened. This topic is proving so enlightening. It's confirming some ideas and giving me some dramatic surprises.
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Ladies, thankyou so much for these replies. It's been a real cross-section. I've always been curious, but it's been a serious problem trying to match up what I've heard with the guidelines people always give about erotic writing, 'things men ought to understand about women'. You've all been a great help. I'm particularly delighted by the picture and the video--they say it all really. (To be honest I think my 'inner woman' rather liked them too). There are references to 'the subject' in a story I've just put up. It's my first so please be kind, but not too kind, I'd be interested to know if you ladies think I've got it about right. Anyway, thankyou again for your input, and giving me a lot to think about. Corno
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This is a serious question, I'd love to know. What does a girl mean, but more importantly, what are your exact feelings, when you say a man has a nice bottom? I'm a confirmed appreciator of ladies' bottoms, and I know how they make me feel, but I can't imagine a woman feeling that way about a man's bottom--yet I often hear ladies saying 'he has a sexy bottom.' (I have to confess, I had a lovely warm feeling when I overheard someone saying she thought I had a nice bottom--I emphasise though that she said 'nice' not sexy.)
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Hope you don't mind a longish answer. My average is probably once a week, usually well between actual sex with my wife--my excuse, to think about things it wouldn't be appropriate to think about while having 'proper' sex--and also to make sure I don't build up and 'come' too quickly, so I can make sure she has time to enjoy it. It seems to work. What I think about? I have a long lifetime behind me. At one extreme I think about those heady days of mutual exploration with college girlfriends--I think, non-sexually about pretty girls I've known. Sometimes I imagine a college girl friend masturbating alongside me. I also think about my 'first time' masturbation, at 11, when an older boy took me into the school field, behind the trees, and taught me. We held each other's dicks and I thought how wonderful and mature his was--mine would never grow to be like that--but of course it did, and has been a great source of pleasure ever since. As with women though, (I believe) masturbation isn't just about genitals, it can be an all body thing, and I'm still discovering new 'places' and exploring some of the 'tantric' holds. Since my teens I've found it wonderfully life-affirming--I'm a great country walker, and it can be so exhilarating, in the forest, or on a remote mountain top, to strip off, and celebrate being one with nature. As a teenager I had terrible guilt problems about it all, from things my parents used to say. One of my common fantasies is still imagining someone with me saying, 'go on, you can, it's OK to do this.' How would you feel about replying to me and saying it's OK for me next time I masturbate to think of you giving me permission--not to think of you sexually, but just to think of you saying yes, it's OK? Hope that's not inappropriate?