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classifieddivafiles
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 154
United States

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Cant we all just be happy in the skin we're in? What one person doesnt like another one will love! Find the lover and ignore the Judgers Kisses too all and to what makes us different!!!!!!!
Quote by 1ball
What would you want your partner to do in a situation like that? I find that if I try very hard to not have a double standard, that will often guide me to a choice. If you would want your partner to have the fling to see if it gets out of his system, then go for it.


I agree with 1ball. You already said its not something you would normally do why start bad habits? But if you dont mind your boyfriend doing it let him know whats going on and do it. Just make sure you tell him before he finds out about it second hand. Second hand communication always ends badly.
There is nothing wrong with a person wanting and lusting after you. As long as it was a healthy want an not stalker lust. But like Shylass says if its secrete you probably wouldnt no about it.
Sex before marriage does not guarantee a long lasting marriage neither does waiting till you get married. So it sounds like a no win situation. But sex before marriage is way more pleasurable. So I’m indifferent.