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Never experienced here, so...no advice to be provided. Maybe quit and find another hobby?

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You know, you can state your opinions and make your points without resorting to childish taunts 'Oh but I forgot... "smart" people don't get caught cheating.'

'Once things settle'....it doesn't settle in a matter of days or weeks, it can take years, and, by that time the kids are not only going to have had to be involved in years of spats, but will also, obviously, be a few years older...and kids, don't stay kids for very long.

You appear to be twisting my words intentionally or not 'Clearly the answer is to stay in a miserable marriage, keep fighting and being passive-aggressve with your "evil" spouse, and fucking around with your mistresses while trying to hide the evidence. That sets a far better example for the kids. At least they won't be the product of divorce... just of two immature, angry parents who eventually sleep in separate bedrooms'

...I believe what I actually said was that if parents are able to cope in a marriage then it would be more beneficial for their children (who they should consider to be more important then themselves...and if they don't consider that to be the case then why on earth did they have kids?) to remain in said marriage.

Amicable divorces are rare things, it isn't a case of having a 50/50 chance.

I wasn't taunting you. I was making a general statement. Obviously I have hit a raw nerve with you. I assume that most people that cheat think that they are being "smart" about covering their tracks and yet most of the time the infidelity is uncovered or the spouse turns the other way but still knows its going on and it festers and makes the relationship worse. People get caught... all the time. Is that a statistic that is in dispute?

I think if two people want to stay in a bad marriage for the sake of their children (I can't believe I'm even making that statement since the concept of it is so outdated), then why not work on the marriage, go to marital counselling, or hey.. I'm even in favour of two people sitting down, discussing the situation and agreeing to a co-parenting roommate situation where they both are free to seek sex/romance outside the marriage, but stay together for parenting/financial reasons.

That may sound like a crazy idea, but so is the idea that cheating and enduring decades of unhappiness is a better choice for themselves, or for their children.

I just don't understand the concept of an unhappy marriage creating happy children. I have yet to see any examples of this in the real world. As well, it's a heavy burden of guilt for the kids to bear later in life when they realize that their parents stuck it out 'for them' like martyrs and made themselves miserable in the process.

FYI. The non-amicable, permanently hostile divorces that I have seen go down are the ones where one (or both) spouses were cheating.