Do NOT send me random whispers, before asking me if it is okay to do so in the open room!

Exceptions are those who already know me well enough as close friends!!


I'm lesbian and also a 40 yo single parent. I try to juggle my 24 hours between having a professional career and focusing on full-time parenting challenges.

As tough as the challenge has been over these years, when I look back, it has all been worth it!!

I do not judge those in this virtual space or anywhere else, primarily because if I start walking down that path, then I first need to judge myself too, because I know my own weaknesses and faults and failures are likely to be far worse!

I'm honest... openly honest., which sometimes is a disadvantage as well. The way I look at it, If I can't be honest with myself and others I interact with even in this virtual space, which is supposedly an escapade from the outside world, then what is the point of spending time or sharing thoughts in here?

I'm versatile in my thoughts and needs, both sexually and/or otherwise. I'm also usually quite open minded and at least listen to another's point of view, even if I may sometimes differ from their opinions on a certain topic or discussion.

One of the most important attributes I look for in a person is their personality and character! Equally important is that I look for one to connect with my mind... if one wishes to have my undivided attention, then capture my mind.. and the rest, given time and circumstances, will eventually follow through!

Update: I've been genuinely intrigued and interested in Nudism, outside of the privacy of home for awhile. Last year summer, I took the first steps towards exploring this, and it has been a good experience!

A quote from Mark Twain:

"There is a charm about the --------- that makes it unspeakably desirable."

Try to fill in the blank!


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Interests
I love to read both fiction and non-fiction works. The trouble is finding those quiet moments to sit back and relax with a book!