"Age" is way more of a mindset than a number. (To some extent I am a testament to that idea.) ... I've met lots of folks who do not look or "act" their age, and do it very well. ... Eat well, keep moving... keep an open mind... you'll do just fine. 😘

I'm not married (I'm divorced), but I would never suck a guy's cock and not tell my partner. That simply is not ethical. In fact, I would not do it unless I discussed it ahead of time with my partner(s). If a partner did something like that behind my back I would find it completely disrespectful, and I would not want to treat someone like that, especially someone I really cared for.