In the current isolation situation it’s a very pleasurable way of interacting with a lover.
Not planned. It was when I was at University. I was at a house party with friends and got chatting to a slightly older lady. We had one of those light easy conversations that started to turn flirty and I realised that she was interested in me in “that” way. I had thought about it before (and had masturbated at the thought of such a scenario). When she suggested continuing the conversation back at hers it was an easy decision.
As I am not a great fan of penetration I rarely experience this. I have used them on other women a few times on their request. I’m a believer in satisfying my partner so if it’s something they enjoy then I’ll go with it.
I suspect rather a lot of us. Usually without regret.
It’s certainly a valid question. I, like the vast majority had vaginal sex before anal (about 5 years or so earlier) but I do know friends who wouldn’t let their bf penetrate them vaginally.
I've had drunk sex mainly when younger but I generally regretted it. Usually wrong person or just found myself in an uncomfortable situation. Personally nowadays I like to remain in control of my body so usually don't find myself in compromising situations. If I'm with friends we look out for each other. It's much more sensible and the sex is way better too as a fringe benefit.
Another vote for the lipstick vibe. If you aren't experienced with toys avoid the Rampant Rabbit. Waaaay too fierce for a beginner.
No. I find it uncomfortable and it just doesn't stimulate me.
On a guy it was stroking him until he came. On me it was being fingered by my then bf (he wasn't very good lol).