Hi,
In person, I'm neither, but online I like being a dom. On and off for a couple of years.
At the moment, I have an online sub who is loyal and aims to please me.
One thing that we like to do is for me to find a guy online to cyber with her while I observe. Then afterwords, I'll call her and have her cum for me.
So far, so good. She enjoys it and so do I. We're always looking for some straight guys out there to help out.