I have re-connected with a lover from a long time ago with whom I shared the mos mind-blowing sex of my life.I'm happily married to another woman for many years /I want to open private email realtionship with my first lover, and Idon't want share this withanyone else,mostespecially my loving wife. Since I have re-connected with "S" , my erotic life with my wifehas gone through the roof and ceiling. "S" says she wouldlike to get intimate withme again (from 900 miles away) but she thinks I'm being unfaithful. Is this cheating?