For a very, very long time, I have been an advocate of cruising for sex and reluctant to discuss - or post about - this sexual fetish. Foremost is the fact that you have to post as 'Gay" any retelling of male/male sexual encounters when, in fact, a large number of male to male sexual adventures do not involve Gay participants; it's just guys having sex with other guys. The other is that the fantasy stories claiming to be...