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bigblue9094
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 48
United States

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Since it seems I have with a few of you to think that I'm using myself in this situation I'm not! I'm happily and proudly married! However I am a college student after serving my country and being separated medically. What I have noticed is a lot of tha ladies only put looks into how they select a man. Which hasn't changed in over 18 yrs since I was in High School. But so that the question that was thrown back at me I have been with all three types and honestly prefer #2. My wife falls between 2 and 3! I hope to hear from more ladies on here and have no issues replying back. Again thank you to all for being honest and posting comments.
Thanks for the reply ladies. I appreciate the honesty. However I'm surprised that only 2 of you have taken a stab at being honest. 30 people have viewed this topic! Well I'll check again tomorrow and hopefully more will chip in.
So I have had this question sitting on my mind and since there seems to be A LOT of extremely sexy women on here, ladies what do you prefer?

A) A man that even though he is a little heavy set, knows how to work correctly, ie (tongue, fingers, and cock)
B) A muscle bound guy that even though he is eye candy typically only cares about one thing... himself!
C) A thin guy that even you may be able to break.

I ask this with no disrespect to any man on this website, however I find it curious as to what a woman looks for.
During my Navy days, I saw on license plate frame that stated "Good Girls Swallow; Bad Girls Spit." When I was with my ex, she never swallowed, but have been with several women since and they swallow. I love it when a woman is willing to drink every drop, because ladies if you ask your man to go down on you and you cum they are doing it for you!!!
Pregnant women are AMAZING!!! There always horny and you don't have to worry about getting her pregnant!
Girls with tattoos and piercings is HOT!!! I've been with many women who had tattoos and even been with a couple of women that had piercings. The best of a gal that I was FWB's with she had her clit pierced and I loved to go down on her and suck on it!!! It made her cum so quick and hard. She was a VERY tiny girl so you mix in that plus easy to orgasm and I'll tell you what she was tight, wet, and WOW!!!
That all depends on what you want. If you are in the mood for oral, I'll put it in your mouth. If you want anal, I'll know how to make it feel great and not hurt! But I also know how to make your pussy SUPER wet and fuck you to multiple orgasms, before cumming.
The hottest has to be Australian. I totally wish I would have been single when I visited Perth/ Freemantle back in 03'! But on top of those, Irish, British, German, Spanish, and Russian!
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2 woman 69 very hot , but I love giving head but guy are clueless what turn woman on sorry guy woman are king at turn me on


danni69; It's to bad that you can't get a guy to give you the same orally as a woman can... I however have been with several women who are bi and was told by all them that I eat pussy better than any woman ever did! I truly believe that a man can do the job the same or better if directed by his partner.

As for the real question: I love it. It's a game sometimes as to who can make the first cum! I've never lost!!!
I'm a disabled veteran of the US Navy. I seen a lot of shit over the 12 yrs that served. Including guys in the Navy and Marines wearing women's clothing. The ones that I meet were not gay at least that is what they told me! As for the why, they honestly said it felt better then men underwear and it kept there junk in place. Even that was more then I wanted to know, but each to there own. The question could be reversed: Why do women like to wear men boxers?
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I like to be teased. Whisper something sweet in my ear (I'm not wearing any panties) followed by a lick or bite of the ear lobe. Very hot.


I have to totally agree with Shane000! I love it when my ears are messed with!
At home a thong and teddy, out in town; a corset, loose summer dress, thong or boy shorts, and pair of boots.
It is hard enough to maintain ONE woman why would a guy put himself through trying to maintain a second, even if she was only online. No Thanks!
I did it with my ex and will do it again with my current wife. She has never had kids and we plan to have at least 2. During sex now, she loves to have me suck on her breasts and I'm sure that will get even more intense once she pregnant.
You are correct. In a marriage there has to be some give and take, but if you aren't close in amount of sex you like it will only lead to him cheating on her or using his hands. He will get tired of that and then he will find another way to relieve himself. It sounds like your friend needs to rethink this before he goes down a road that could have a horrible ending.
I wouldn't say that it freaks me out, but just having a naked chick in your bed should be a turn on. Even if she has a huge clit and big lips. Girls that I have been with that had larger clits had orgasms easier!!!
In my previous relationships, before marrying my current wife, it was offered several times, with no follow through. I then had the opportunity about a yr. and half ago, but one of the chicks was getting to clingy so I didn't take the opportunity. Now with my current wife, I know that it is TOTALLY out of the question and I'm okay with that, however I can't lie and say that I would still love to do it.
Agree with mazoo and simplyjohn. Stressing about it will only make things worse. However the fact that you admitted that while masturbating it is getting to harder to cum as well, would have me headed to the Doc.
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Wow--- your answers surprise me. I guess I always thought men prefered au natural more. Will make me rethink my morning decisions!! Thanks and keep those great comments coming.


If I was at a bar and the woman walked up to me and said, "I have no panties on and need it bad now!" That would be the biggest rush and turn on. But it is also fun to play with her in some sexy boyshorts or thong!!! Go down on her with it still on and make her nice and wet!!! Then you move the panties out of the way and fuck the hell out of her!!!
I'm about 6.5 inches when turned on, 7" when in action, and about 7.5" when I come. However I have slight bend and my wife said that if I was completely straight I would hurt her.
1st - Get some anal toys - beads, plugs, even a small vibrator, and some lube.
2nd - It sounds like you have a man that is asking, so make sure he gets you warmed up first. The toys help, but he has to be willing to do oral, so being clean is a great thing.
3rd - Start out with a finger and work your way up.
4th - After you have gotten use to all this, their are several positions that are enjoyable for both you and him, but because of how tight you will be, make sure he has cum or it won't be much fun.
5th - A little alcohol is never a bad idea either.

Enjoy and hope to hear how it turns out for you!
It hasn't taken much for me. Bed, couch, floor, tub, car!!! If she wants it, I'll give it to to her.
Shaven or Hairy??? That is a great question. I have had both, and for the purpose of going down, prefer bald or trimmed close. My wife has a bush and though I go down on her I have actually told her she needs to trim if she wants me down there again.
Due to an auto accident it's been 3 weeks. Usually though my wife and I are active about 3 or 4 days a week.
There is always a shower. Besides it's proven fact that women are the most horny during the time of the month. It wouldn't bother me to hang with her or even have sex with her!
I must be different. I would prefer a good girl that I could keep around and have her try new things with me, then fuck a slut that is only looking to notch her headboard.
First it would start out with your favorite glass of wine and candle lit bedroom. From there we would get each other hot, I would slowly tease you leaving your thong on, making sure I could taste your wonderful juices through it. Then I would slowly remove your thong and the rest of your clothes and go back to teasing your clit and running my tongue from your ass to clit, using my fingers to spread your juices all over. Nibbling on your inner thighs while you scream in anticipation of giving you a mind blowing orgasm. Once I have you in clawing and scratching my back begging me to bring you over the edge, I finally suck your clit in mouth deep allowing you to go over the edge and have your eyes roll back in head. Then I would slowly climb my way up your body spending a little time sucking on your nipples to keep you over the edge. Finally I would look you in the eyes and kiss you deeply while I slowly insert my cock in VERY wet pussy and break through the hymn. Once that is accomplished I would allow you to recover from the pain keep my cock buried in you and once you gave me the okay, I would slowly start to fuck you back to a wonderful orgasm and putting you over the edge as you felt my warm cum blasting your insides. Then while I'm still hard inside you, roll you over so that you can recover laying on top me!!!
I would have to say that I probably wouldn't. I've only been with one gal, that it wasn't think but girth that was required....

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I know that this is ask the ladies, but I have to add a comment here... Ladies who have had a bad experience, PLEASE get with a guy or gal for that matter who a) knows how to work you up to allow you to enjoy it and b) once that has happened and you may want a few drinks in you in the first couple times I promise you, you will experience one of the best orgasms you could have!!! I have had anal sex and anal play with several women and everyone of them had told me that they didn't enjoy it until they did it with me! Guys... you have to get the rosebud nice and wet before you try sticking anything in her!!!