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bidewey61
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 154
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Advanced Wordsmith
so things i've tried and really enjoyed:
throwing my hips over my head as close as i ca, getting my cock above my mouth and jerking off so it cums in my mouth (do use this position for too long tho)...can play with yes ass too (see below)
also, sometimes, i'll warm a large carrot and slicker it up with olive oil (virgin of course) and fuck myself while i'm jerking
and/or, fuck a soft melon,,,cut a tight hole for yer cock and on opposite side cut a fairly small hole to add suction
and/or, (if yer into gs), lay in the tub of elsewhere (barefloor for easy cleanup) and pee on yerself...let the warm fluid get all over you, pee in yer mouth if you want.
there are so many ways to please one's self...use a great imagination and be adventurous...have fun.
throwing my hips over my head as close as i ca, getting my cock above my mouth and jerking off so it cums in my mouth (do use this position for too long tho)...can play with yes ass too (see below)
also, sometimes, i'll warm a large carrot and slicker it up with olive oil (virgin of course) and fuck myself while i'm jerking
and/or, fuck a soft melon,,,cut a tight hole for yer cock and on opposite side cut a fairly small hole to add suction
and/or, (if yer into gs), lay in the tub of elsewhere (barefloor for easy cleanup) and pee on yerself...let the warm fluid get all over you, pee in yer mouth if you want.
there are so many ways to please one's self...use a great imagination and be adventurous...have fun.
Advanced Wordsmith
in a car, giving a bj and getting one from my ex-wife, while we were stopped due to road construction...the womabn flagger had a big grin on her face as we slowly drove by
in a pasture of a state park...she and i had just...and i do mean JUST...finished dressing when two horsemen appeared over the hill right behind us...one of them was a local minister
a pool table in the bar i worked after hours
in a vegetable garden
out in backyard during a snow storm...did that twice even
when i was a kid, a friend of mine who i met as a freshman, and i had a roll-around in a field of tall grass, right acros the street from my house, where my mom was home.
in an attic
on the stairs to a back porch
i near forgot...it's noty so much a place, but had sex while i was in a wheelchair...it's what the arm rests (leg rests) are really for
in a pasture of a state park...she and i had just...and i do mean JUST...finished dressing when two horsemen appeared over the hill right behind us...one of them was a local minister
a pool table in the bar i worked after hours
in a vegetable garden
out in backyard during a snow storm...did that twice even
when i was a kid, a friend of mine who i met as a freshman, and i had a roll-around in a field of tall grass, right acros the street from my house, where my mom was home.
in an attic
on the stairs to a back porch
i near forgot...it's noty so much a place, but had sex while i was in a wheelchair...it's what the arm rests (leg rests) are really for
Advanced Wordsmith
i've been in a total of three 3-ways...two were mostly mistakes. however, my first one (on wkends for a cpl years) were with a married cpl in their mid-40s (i was in my mid-20s) was a blast....i learned a great deal about sex from them...they taught me the playfulness an d adventure in exploring new things. some wkends the focus would be on her...other times him and sometimes me...there were times were it was very casual andnot really planned...other times, we played out scenarios and fantasies. we had a good friendship and i grew to love them both. i miss themn and recall them most fondly.
use a lot of communication (which is what intercourse actually means), honesty, a sense of fun, adventure, and respect. most of all have fun!
use a lot of communication (which is what intercourse actually means), honesty, a sense of fun, adventure, and respect. most of all have fun!
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by Dudealicious
This was once a fantasy of mine, I was with a woman that was not that open minded and when I brought up the topic she immediately said I would be gay if we went through with it. She also said that if I enjoyed it, she worried about losing me to a man.
Now let me say I am 100% straight, I love women their bodies and their twisted little minds (sorry Ladies, it's true!).
I am now with a girl that is very open minded and only wants me to experience the most pleasure I can when we have sex. She started off by using fingers, small vibrators gradually increasing the size to make it more comfortable for me. *Now does using those devices make you gay?* A prostate orgasm for me is the most powerful I have ever experienced and she is very keen on making sure I get a fair dose of them.
We have progressed to a strap-on with a vibrating bullet at the clit. She seems to get just as much pleasure using this on me at times, she says she likes being in control. The feeling is amazing, and as I have said in other forums by you allowing her to pleasure you anally - you also become more experienced and a better lover when it comes to playing with her ass.
I don't go around looking at guys wondering just how big they are and if they would fuck me, I don't have any interest in that at all.
So in answer to your question, no it will not make you gay. But try it, you just may like it!
i wholeheartedly concur, altho i am bi...great post dude
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by 1Zratedgal
Frisky,
You are facing the same dilemma that many couples do at this point of your relationship.
It is a situation that bothers me since the common thing I find lacking is communication!
If you two do not talk about the situation, you never can make anything right for the two of you!
You may have some physical changes that you are going through that affects your sexual stamina but it is never too late to look into couples intimacy therapy!
At the very least, you two should communicate with eachother your desires as well as thoughts and ideas about your sexual relationship at this point of your life together!
On a different note, maybe you two need to explore an ABS and pick up a few toys to spice up things!
At the very least, I would suggest you two look for some cock rings to help you stay hard longer and let the two of you enjoy the ride when she's in the mood!
Kisses!
Steph
=d> and amen, steph
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Mikashikyo (new moon death) yer name says it all, i think. you can either make it the death of a new moon or a new moon from a death.
here's what i mean: there has been many, many a time that i've grown very fond of or even loved someone and they didnt feel the same about me. one guy completely shunned me from the day he found out (for one, i didnt tell him coz i knew him well enough to know he'd freak...it was a betrayed confidence), so i had to let the friendship/love die. i knew he loved me too, but was as a brother and he was more than homophobic...even towards bi guys.
several women, i have loved remained great friends to this day...it was heartbreaking to me to know / find out the romantic love was not returned...it felt like a death...BUT, i kept that love for them, used that energy to keep them as friends and those friendships became richer for it (my new moons). to this day, i know that things worked out for the best, for them and for me. i am blessed by their friendships and i cherish my love for all of them.
dunno if any of tyhat helps or even makes sense to you; bless ya either way.
here's what i mean: there has been many, many a time that i've grown very fond of or even loved someone and they didnt feel the same about me. one guy completely shunned me from the day he found out (for one, i didnt tell him coz i knew him well enough to know he'd freak...it was a betrayed confidence), so i had to let the friendship/love die. i knew he loved me too, but was as a brother and he was more than homophobic...even towards bi guys.
several women, i have loved remained great friends to this day...it was heartbreaking to me to know / find out the romantic love was not returned...it felt like a death...BUT, i kept that love for them, used that energy to keep them as friends and those friendships became richer for it (my new moons). to this day, i know that things worked out for the best, for them and for me. i am blessed by their friendships and i cherish my love for all of them.
dunno if any of tyhat helps or even makes sense to you; bless ya either way.
Advanced Wordsmith
when i open the door for someone and they decide to open the door right next to it to enter...like, "hey mo-fo! people dont open doors for other people!" it's like a big fuck-you, while i stand at the door feeling like a snubbed idiot. and since i use a cane, when people see it and decide not to give me room to pass. i mean, i move aside for people most of the time, but still...
also, people with no real sense of humor.
also, people with no real sense of humor.
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for me, there's more than just the sexiness of watching two women. i love the sensuality between women; the kissing between them can be an excruiatingly great turn-on...seductive, passionate, lovely lips and tongues. i find very few guys like to share full blown make-out kissing, like some lesbian couples i know do. kissing is highly erotic to me. there's also the softer side that i think many men are afraid to express within themselves and at least by watching they can see that part of themselves acted out. finally, i like to imagine myself as one of the women, feeling what she feels and where she feels it. imagining myself as a women and still having sensuous sex with another woman...yummy.
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yes, i would...either mmm, mmf, or ffm....one of brothers and i had a 3way (just kinda happened and he was regretful afterward---thot it sinful) with a gf of mine...also spent some wkends with a married cpl who were in their mid-40s (i was in my mid-20s)...they taught me a lot. if ppl dont get hurt or jealous, why not enjoy them?
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i love the feel of the panties and slips; especially netted thigh-highs. i was once passable, but no longer...damn aging anyway (not really). i've x-dressed for lovers of male and female persuasion. i used to have wkend fun with a cpl who were 20 yrs older than i and they likes me dressed up in women's clothing...was so much fun dressing with her and for the both of them. i dressed for my wife a cpl times and for and with a sis-in-law. felt good. i know straight men who dress and know several gay guys who find the idrea fully repulsive to them.