Getting sleepy and wish i had someone to chat too....
I started to answer this (see * below) and then realised that although it appears to matter a lot, most of all I like any of my ladies to turn up in whatever she is comfortable in. She knows where we are going and she will wear what she feels is appropriate and if that is sexy then i win and if its not i still win, I am with her and that is what counts.
* Firstly it depends on the weather: I encourage my girlfriend in the summer to wear shorts or a short skirt with a crop top or something low cut or tight tee and jeans and no bra and hopefully no panties either.
In the winter I like her to be in something warm and sensible, so leggings, panties, long tops, bra.
If we are going out somewhere like the theatre then its nice dress, heels maybe, something a bit flirty though as well. i want to be able to show her off as well as she shows me off by being on my arm.
If we go to gigs, tee shirt and jeans...
I am not into tongue piercings but the idea of my girlfriend with her nipples pierced is something we have discussed along with adding tattoos to her torso.
We are interested in her clit being pierced but her worry is that she will be wet all the time and that would cause other problems, so unlikely to happen, unless it was for a short time.
Age shouldn't matter but it does, society has a 'thing' about indecent and age is the marker...
Even on this thread there are posts with a 'not more than' limit
So 18 should not be seen with 40+ Why? If an 18 year old girl wants to be with a guy in his 40's cos that is what she wants, yet society in general has a major problem with it.
To most I speak too around the web or in my daily life, I am often taken for being either late twenties, in my thirties or very early 40's because I have a young attitude and to use a term I have seen on here, I have a young soul.
To me age is not a problem........