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anonymousDK
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 38
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i agree with what has been said earlier... it has an big effect when it is used from time to time....
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Yes, in some capacity (from simple thoughts to full blown fantasies) over a period of time. I agree that every relation has some sexual tension and that helps fuel the "what if this happens" imagination.
I'd also say that the most of these will remain a fantasy. And most of the time it's situational.
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Simple answer, yes.

Who wouldn't to have her, whenever, where ever, and however he wants??

But as mentioned earlier, it's probably not so simple to apply the concept over a prolonged period of time.
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I'd say, mostly, I like being in control. I do enjoy following her lead in certain situations. I just really enjoy seeing how she reacts to what I do.
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I like to play, explore... unfortunately my wife is not crazy about it.
And when I say play, explore i mean to tease and please her... I wouldn't call it foreplay, as I don't always need to be have a happy ending.
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I've tried taking ZMA, my stomach didn't like it. I wanted to take it to help me gain weight.

I am interested in better performance, but not obsessed about it, mainly because I have a similar issue to that of seeker4.
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I like it, my wife uses it when we have sex. Not all the time. If she used it in general, it'll just turn me on. Safe to say it is only used for sexual purposes.

As for why, it's about submissiveness.
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My wife has 3 sisters, all younger one of which is not married. I don't have any issues with any of them, but I've never been "too friendly" with any of them. I know how girls get jealous from each other, and if it's her sister... then all Hell will break loose. Because she can't unfriend her sister. My wife stopped talking with one of her friends, because we use to chat online and she knows all about it from her friend.... before we got together.

So I don't think there is a chance of anything happening, ever.

With that said, I have fantasized about fucking all of them. Like in a one-time situation. Not like an affair... I don't want to be with them....

Mostly, it's the youngest, unmarried one. Probably if she had to sleepover, and she heard overheard us fucking, and she could try to peek through the door, get caught... get invited into the room. We could "show" her stuff... etc...

To talk to her afterwards, after sharing such an experience, I can only imagine what that would be like. It's exciting coz it's .
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I think start at the head, move down and then back up to watch again....
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I agree it depends on what's being shown.

I'd say sexy is when the cloth and setting is more sexual and cute is more of a casual cloth and setting.
Both mean she's hot. And yes, I agree that hair has a lot to do with it. Could be that it signals if the look is intentional or just a casual thing.
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I don't think I would. Having cum in my mouth is not something I fancy...
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When I'm alone at home. If there's no time I'm totally alone, then it's shower time.
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I use to, then we stopped it. Simply because by the 3rd or 4th video, she would ask "have you seen this before? and when did you last watch porn?"

It became a trigger for the Porn Investigator.

So no more sharing porn. It was good while it lasted though, coz we would discuss all sorts of "would you do that" situations...
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As much as I fantasize about a fling or random encounter, I don't think I would do it.

But then again, ti comes down to the circumstances.
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I use to be better much better at chatting than actually talking to people. Now it's the other way around. My social skills are better now, I hope.
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I get emotional when watching movies. I do try to hide it. Usually I just tear up at particular scenes. The combination of what's happening and the music get to me (that's what they're supposed to do).
Scenes where humanity is at its best, showing sacrifice is what gets me. Usually, it's war movies. I'm a sucker for the expression of the bond of brotherhood...
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Well, the word "demand" doesn't work for me either, but "ask" does. And within certain boundaries, my answer would be yes.

I have had that conversation with my wife in the past. She was surprised I would be ok with it. She never took me up on the offer though and I never pushed it. She didn't seem to feel comfortable with the idea. She did ask me once why I would be ok with it and asked me wouldn't I be jealous?

So to answer your question as to why, I will try to explain by what I told her many years ago when we had such a conversation.

1) I can separate sex from love

2) I am not the jealous type, which she already knows, since guys flirting with her and dancing with her - never bothered me

3) I really like seeing women let loose and enjoy sex. The more wild they get, the more it makes me feel they enjoy it. Seeing women really enjoy sex - is a huge turn-on for me. I like porn just as much as any guy I guess (we are visual creatures), but most porn does look fake. You can tell a lot of their enjoyment is an act. So seeing your partner really get into sex, would be a lot more real and way more of a turn-on than the fake stuff you see in videos.

4) I am open to experiencing a lot of different things sexually and I certainly couldn't be upset with her for wanting the same.

With all that in mind, I have some boundaries/limits, because although I would not be jealous of the sex, I would not want love to form that could end up causing problems in our relationship. There are precautions/rules that I would probably insist be taken to avoid those types of issues - my boundaries.

- It wouldn't be something we do all the time, but something we do from time to time to keep the new erotic experiences flowing



I would say yes, as I agree with those points. I wouldn't want it to become a regular thing, or a regular person doing it. Probably best when on a vacation or something where the "risk" of a repeat would be low.
But as I would like to bring in another girl, it seems only fair to let her do the same. We would have to set some boundaries for it though.
I don't think it would happen, as we have only talked about it as a fantasy, never in a "operational" way.
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"Depends" is a good answer. Mainly it depends on the distance and what she's wearing/exposing... anything short makes me look her up her thighs to her ass. Long hair also attracts my attention, then I try to catch a glimpse of her face.
Tuns me on, usually whatever is her best feature, may that be boobs, ass,eyes or general figure. But the thing that turns me on the most is how mischievous she seems, expressed either by her dressing or how she moves.
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I definitely lean more to first shooter games. And until a few years ago never played online, so I've always played the campaign section of a game. But it has to do with not having enough time to invest in RPG games, so that I'm satisfied with the result.
For the last few month I've been exclusively playing Sniper Elite 3 on the PS3, multiplayer. It's fun when coz it combines skill with some strategy as the maps force you to need cover from teammates.