I've had sexual relations with two people in may life. One man, and one woman. The woman I've been in a relationship with since High School. We lost our virginity to each other.

Recently, we've been exploring our sexuality more.

I've always been very focused on pleasing my partner. Recently I've realized that this has caused me to neglect my own pleasure to a degree. I've been starting to allow myself to be more connected to the feelings, textures, sensations and the other titillations that sexual stimulation has to offer.

She has always fantasized about being with another woman. I don't have any sexual attraction to the typical male body, but I do lust for dick. Which I suppose makes trans women and twinks the ideal choice for me.

I've recently realized my 8" length x 7" girth penis is large. Weird, but it just doesn't seem that way to me. I suppose that's likely due to the pervasive monster cocks I see in porn all the time. I have always been aware, and in turn very sensitive about how easy it is to hurt my partner when having sex. She always thought it was because her vaginal canal was too short, but I suppose this makes more sense now.

I've always wished I wasn't circumcised. Foreskin stretching was able to restore enough to provide some protection to glans when flaccid, and that did increase sensitivity a lot. Man, if my frenulum is this sensitive when most of it has been chopped off, I can only imagine the sensations when still intact.

We have only done a minimal amount of anal play, though I do wonder more and more what the prostate stimulation it can offer is like.

Like my partner, I am shy and sensitive, so coming to terms with these feelings is an important part of this new sexual discovery. She has fantasies of being dominated, unfortunately I really have problems with that. It's not an ethical problem or anything, I think we should be free to play - but 40 years of being a man and a feminist gives me conflicts. I suppose it is just more for me to learn and areas to grow.

I am a very big fan of going down on a woman and fingering her. Just something about the soft, warm, wet, and smooth vagina that drives me wild. Feeling the G-spot engorge, and the otherworldly smoothness of the cervix, then the tightening during orgasm is enough to put me over the edge. Literally.