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alabasterfairy
Over 90 days ago
Female, 42
Australia

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I'm for the ant! I think carrying that much weight for such a body size is remarkable..

BUT on the other hand, the cow gives us mushrooms ;) LOL
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lol @ the above responses..

A guy who is so focused on raising your confidence, who is genuinely nice, who will listen, who will turn down an evening with his friends if you are having a problem, who is comfortable with who they are, who is interested in what you have to say, who is emotionally supportive, who gives more than he takes.. Someone like that could be mid-sentence speaking on another topic but I would be thinking "Gawd, I want to shag him!" Go thru the heart for the best sex of your life.
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Big YES. Laughter and compassion make me melt. A guy is most sexy when he is interested in you and not your vagina first. Then the latter comes straight after. The universe's paradox for males. I don't know how guys aren't driven mad by trying to figure us creatures out!
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Has he been hurt before? If that's the case then I wouldn't write him off just yet.

I find it hard to say. I've been hurt royally in the past. There are times when I wanted to, and I knew I would mean what I say, but just couldn't utter those three words. Just wanted to say "I love you! I love you! I love you! I love you soooo much!" It comes down to fear. Fear of being hurt, fear of the trust being abused, fear of commitment. Uncertainty.

Work at it. Have a talk to him if you can and see where to go with it. If you didn't have some hope for the relationship you would have cast him aside by now. Listen to your heart.
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No way. The size of a dick doth not make a man!

I've had the same experience as a comment already made. Sometimes when they are well endowed they have no clue how to relate to a female.

It's so much more sensual when you find a guy you connect with. Just a touch turns you on and the whole act is just magic no matter how big they are. You can get into things like tantra as well when you have that trust. Then you are taking things to a whole different level of pleasure.
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I don't think there is a point where someone "get's it" and then everything stops. I think there is always something to learn and a part of yourself that you haven't explored yet. We're here to live life to the fullest; to ask questions; to explore; to share. The most fun you will ever have is when you throw yourself into your fears and realise that the only thing you were afraid of was your self. Life gets exciting, relationships get more intimate, sex gets interesting.. ;)