Maybe it's just me being paranoid, but he seems reluctant. I've talked to him about it and he just says don't be silly, I don't dislike doing it! I want to pleasure you! But he just doesn't seem enthusiastic, and he doesn't really go for it first unless he really has to if i'm not wet enough for penetration. It's like foreplay isn't even a concept in his mind!
How do I address this without hurting his feelings? I don't want to feel like i'm forcing him into anything, but i have needs too and it's not fair that he always gets to cum and then gives up on me
Any tips???
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aalily
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 154
United Kingdom
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So I thought sharing our fave techniques would be fun ;) 
I certainly have, let's call it a sleepover or two gone a bit wild with my BFFs in college . A few drinks in and a bi-curious threesome ensued! What fun...
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Hard to say, you can get some super great guys in their 30s! And they've got a great career.. mm!
And i've always got on with older men, especially because by the time I was 13 I looked 20!
For a relationship though, 4/5 years is a good age gap for a man to be older, because if it's too big your goals are going to be too different
That being said, I never ask age. I don't think it matters if you feel something is there!
And i've always got on with older men, especially because by the time I was 13 I looked 20!
For a relationship though, 4/5 years is a good age gap for a man to be older, because if it's too big your goals are going to be too different
That being said, I never ask age. I don't think it matters if you feel something is there!
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Yes! I've met a lot of people, I go to festivals which are major celeb hang outs so I often bump into celebs! To name a few, I've seen (and been about 6ft away from) Kate Moss, Lilly Allen and Reggie Yates, and met Snoop Dogg, Gok Wan (Who was the loveliest person EVER) etc!
Oh, and I have had lunch with Kate Middleton! She's a family friend of ours. How could I miss Kate?!
Oh, and I have had lunch with Kate Middleton! She's a family friend of ours. How could I miss Kate?!
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I'm quite an honest person too and hardly ever lie. I'm always upfront and honest about my mistakes and if i've done something 'naughty' like sweetpenny said then i just admit it. I think if i were to lie it would be because i'm not yet comfortable to unleash how i truly feel for fear that i might say something wrong and you won't like me any more (for example: Person: oh god i HATE that jacket!! don't you? me: Yes truth: I kind of like that jacket, but i don't want to tell you because i don't want you to think i have shit taste. when i am more comfortable with you, my answer will become: i think its alright! Pair it with that belt over there and you've got a hot outfit!) but that's kind of basic. I might lie if i don't want you to judge me, and i might lie if i'm uncomfortable with what you've asked me or i'm embarrassed about it. For example person: 'Have you ever kissed a girl? me: No. truth: yes, quite a few times but i don't want you to get the wrong idea)
But like someone else said, i pretty much live by the 'tell the truth or shut your mouth' rule.
I think some people are just compulsive liars and do it to make themselves sound more interesting, or to create drama, or because they lie so much they believe their own lies, or because they think if they tell lies enough they will be true, or because they just don't care about your feelings and want to have their cake and eat it so they tell you what you want to hear so that's possible.
But like someone else said, i pretty much live by the 'tell the truth or shut your mouth' rule.
I think some people are just compulsive liars and do it to make themselves sound more interesting, or to create drama, or because they lie so much they believe their own lies, or because they think if they tell lies enough they will be true, or because they just don't care about your feelings and want to have their cake and eat it so they tell you what you want to hear so that's possible.
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For sex, probably not. I want to quite often but i'm quite wary and also quite busy for the people i love in the real world anyway. But if we have a real connection and have skyped and chatted a lot and we both understand what the point of the meet is and don't expect sex, then i can't see why it wouldn't be fun!
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Absolutely not! You're both married. You know when you said those vows? They meant something. You don't cheat! And regardless of the whole to cheat or not to cheat thing, doing it with another family member is fucking retarded. If she's your wife's sister, then don't think she wont tell her sister! They have grown up together! Her loyalty is still to her sister, even if she isn't honoring that by offering to fuck you. If she's your brothers wife, would you really do that to your brother? You've grown up together, you're meant to have each others backs!
It's going to be even MORE messy WHEN you get caught. Which you will.
Like that other girl said, don't shit where you eat!
It's going to be even MORE messy WHEN you get caught. Which you will.
Like that other girl said, don't shit where you eat!
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I like to snuggle on a cold night but i'm a very warm person and i get hot soo easily, and i also am warm to touch ALWAYS so its not always comfortable. I do enjoy a cuddles though! And i sometimes fall asleep on his chest or something. Spooning is cute, i like him behind as long as he doesnt pull me too hard cos i get hot (lol!) i like being behind too but it gives me a dead arm LOL. I have a king size bed and i sleep on the right at the moment because of where the bed is in my new house. If the bed's up against a wall on one side, i can't lay next to the wall. In my old house i slept on the left again because of where the bed was
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Granted -- unfortunately it is so old that when the bottle is opened and the wine hits the atmosphere it turns to vinegar. You could make salad dressing with it though.
I wish one of my favorite Lush lovelies would invite me to go on a romantic cruise with them.
Granted but they turn out to be psycho and the boat sinks
I wish i had an Hermes birkin
