So I don't know where to begin. But where I am right now i'm happy with my job and what I have done in my past. I have survived a stroke, a vet, and I am currently a teacher. That being said I suck when dealing with women. I am not a stranger to kink or to relationships that are not considered normal. However, When I have tried dating now i have run into a brick wall. and I realize im in my 30's, and never been married, but I have my reasons. (mainly when I was in the military I saved money rather then get laid.) I am finding it harder and harder to find someone who I connect with. I find that where I am today geo wise, I could get laid no matter what. But at the same time I am not a jodi (aka home wrecker) and I still have my own code of conduct. I have been on a few dates and the outcome was never positive. What I am asking is, can you help a man in his mid 30's how to date in this dating times?