I'm a 68 yo married woman looking for a female lover ( or a male if he's pleasant ).....Have a caning and whipping fetish but only with other women......Dominant but gentle......Reasonably hard core feminist......Guys, nice manners and a bit of subtlety is good.......absolutely no dick pics!.....Strongly attracted to intelligence and humour......Not into piss, poo, blood or anything anal.........and I don't share pics.....ANNOUNCEMENT: As lush now requires payment to respond to a private message, I will be chatting elsewhere as I cannot transfer money for security reasons.......If anyone wishes to stay in touch my email is     and I am wendygreen on Trillian.....hope to hear from you all......