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Vyenna_
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 34
United States

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Quote by stephanie


I'd say SPEAK YOUR POSITION!!! (but...)

Be prepared to ACKNOWLEDGE that SOME might find that HURTFUL, AND IF THEY DO, be prepared to at once DEFEND, but then be BIG ENOUGH to LET IT GO having made your point...

(I DISAGREE with some people here, but it's impossible to sometimes counter somebody's legitimately held view... My OPINION is NO MORE VALID than any other, DESPITE MY CONVICTION...)


Nor is yours...


(Respect is ALL...)

xx SF



I absolutely agree with this. Like many have said, keeping things bottled up will only end up hurting you in the end. Your mind only has so much space to process information and some, even if subconscious, can build up until there's no room left and you often end up freaking out anyway.

I have problems with this when it comes to my emotions. I'm not very good at managing them, so I kind of avoid them... and then one tiny, random, small thing can go wrong and I will start bawling my eyes out. It's weird.

If you're still not sure who to share things with, keep a journal! I know it might sound lame, but writing out your problems can have a profound effect on you, and can not only help you get them off your mind, but might even help you come up with a solution! smile
I still love watching cartoons and drawing cartoon characters, and my own characters as well biggrin

I still LOVE the two shows I was obsessed with when I was younger: Dragonball Z and Invader Zim xD



I sometimes work as a nanny/babysitter and I have SO much fun interacting with the kids, and playing with their dolls or action figures. It gives me an excuse to act like a kid again :D
Quote by CyberwalkerX


Hmm... thanks for sharing this. I won't try it with a guy as you put though, I'm a guy myself and straight ;)


Ah! Haha i didn't know that teehee.. sorry
It's finally raining and it's so awesome!!!

I love stormy weather biggrin
Quote by CyberwalkerX


This is good to know because I had the mistaken sense that girls did it as a favor for the guys, because they can be so generous ;)


That's what I used to think as well! I couldn't understand how so many people seemed to like it. But then I tried it for the first time with my current boyfriend and I was really surprised by how good it felt.

I mean... it felt REALLY good. Of course, it does take a lot of preparation and can be uncomfortable or even a little painful at first. But if you're with someone who is patient and let's you go at your own pace, you can take your time to get used to how it feels and relax.... and then it can feel incredible.


Of course, everyone is different and it might not work for you. That's why if you ever do decide to try it, you need to make sure you're with a guy who won't pressure you and will be okay with stopping if it gets too uncomfortable.
I should be working on my art, or applying for a job, but alas... I am here wandering the forum pages.

:d/