I have spent a fair a mount of time reading erotic fiction here and elsewhere. I am generally surprised the degree to which it presents
1. Women who
-- "love to suck cock" (not my experience, although some give excellent oral sex)
-- enjoy being called and even call themselves "slut," "whore" and similar
-- are willing to troll their daughters to strangers
-- are "anal sluts"
-- who don't want a relationship but are fine with endless casual sex
-- who need only the slightest nudge toward lesbian activity
2. Men who
-- who like having their anuses probed
-- who love cunnilingus more than penetration
-- never consider STDs or pregnancy
-- can maintain and regain erections as if they were teenagers, although they are in their late 30s and often much older
-- love to , inflict pain, dominate, etc.
This is to say nothing of the various "pee pee" activities, rampant among family groups, etc.
While I realize that part of eroticism is satisfying pent up fantasy, I wonder whether the ease with which these occur (and I realize that some of this does occur, albeit not commonly) is portrayed in a way that makes the fantasy weak.
I'm thinking about the willing suspension of disbelief.
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Vanellus
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I'm constantly wondering about the ideas of women in some erotic stories. I constantly feel that it is unrealistic to portray a woman
-- getting off on being called a "whore" or a "slut";
-- actually finding pleasure in sucking a penis to the point of seeking this activity out above their own pleasure;
-- calling their mouths or themselves as "cum hungry".
I understand the desire to please and temporarily acquiesce to a male fantasy of domination, but is it realistic to think women would thing and act this way normally?
-- getting off on being called a "whore" or a "slut";
-- actually finding pleasure in sucking a penis to the point of seeking this activity out above their own pleasure;
-- calling their mouths or themselves as "cum hungry".
I understand the desire to please and temporarily acquiesce to a male fantasy of domination, but is it realistic to think women would thing and act this way normally?
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I often read this word in stories. Sometimes they are used by men, sometimes by women.
I doubt women actually get off on calling themselves or being called "slut." But I also wonder the logic of it for a man.
Why would I want a slut? Why would I want to call a woman a slut for having sex with me? Aren't I really saying that I think it's "bad" to have sex?
Would a woman really get off on calling herself or being called a slut?
I doubt women actually get off on calling themselves or being called "slut." But I also wonder the logic of it for a man.
Why would I want a slut? Why would I want to call a woman a slut for having sex with me? Aren't I really saying that I think it's "bad" to have sex?
Would a woman really get off on calling herself or being called a slut?
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Hi, welcome.
For me, since becoming a verifier, I never knew there was such an audience for the more types of stories. Also, I didn't realize how many people can't use proper punctuation, spell check, or even simply read our guidelines!
Is a verifier like an editor?
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Lol. Really? This is actually a huge turn off for me. In fact, while in a chat room, a guy asked me to look at his profile pics. He didn't tell me why. He wouldn't drop the subject, so I finally caved in and looked. And behold, it was a gallery full of cock-shots. After immediately clicking out of his profile, I didn't say anything. So 5 minutes later, he asked me if I looked and how I felt. And I asked him how I was supposed to feel. His exact answer was "Appreciative". And I asked him what I was supposed to appreciate? It was a dick. I've seen plenty in my lifetime and I'm sure I'll see plenty more (my exact words). And of course, his response was a whole lot of butthurt. Moral of the story: If a guy pesters you to look at his dick pics and you don't appreciate them, then obviously you're a man-hating lesbian who's so hard up for a good fuck that she takes it out on random strangers...especially those that beg you to look at pictures of their dick.
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Lol. Really? This is actually a huge turn off for me. In fact, while in a chat room, a guy asked me to look at his profile pics. He didn't tell me why. He wouldn't drop the subject, so I finally caved in and looked. And behold, it was a gallery full of cock-shots. After immediately clicking out of his profile, I didn't say anything. So 5 minutes later, he asked me if I looked and how I felt. And I asked him how I was supposed to feel. His exact answer was "Appreciative". And I asked him what I was supposed to appreciate? It was a dick. I've seen plenty in my lifetime and I'm sure I'll see plenty more (my exact words). And of course, his response was a whole lot of butthurt. Moral of the story: If a guy pesters you to look at his dick pics and you don't appreciate them, then obviously you're a man-hating lesbian who's so hard up for a good fuck that she takes it out on random strangers...especially those that beg you to look at pictures of their dick.
How's this?
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No, of course not really.
Looks like I could've used this, in retrospect:
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Guys' fascination with their own dicks in general is a mystery to me. A funny one! LOL. But still a mystery.
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
Depends on the boundaries of your relationship. Just think about how it would make your significant other feel if he/she knew if you were cybering online. If it's something you wouldn't want them to know about, then chances are you shouldn't be doing it.
I wouldn't mind. She would mind knowing. She might not understand it.
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ok, good questions.
no i dont prefer it to, i guess, regular sex and no, for me it doesnt lead to an orgasm on its own.
as for the pain...well i have found that the pain differs at first entry depending on the position. all fours is OUT for me in that first moment...spooning or reverse cowgirl is better. and if he lets me control how fast he enters me that helps too. that said...after that first penetration (maybe a few strokes) then the pain TOTALLY disappears and it does feel mmmmm awesome. at this point any position is a go.
hope that helps
um ... reverse cowgirl?
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I don't mean can we learn extreme or weirdly thrilling things written to entertain. I mean legal and more or less conventional elements of eroticism.
Here are instances that I feel are unrealistic:
-- The guy takes the woman through several orgasms, then lets go. Do people really do that? Is that what women prefer?
-- most women I have known absolutely HATE anal sex. Some stories make it sound like that's not true.
-- women coming to orgasm in nonconsensual sex. That seems totally unrealistic and implausible.
-- And men who last through three, four, five orgasms in a row, but they're not 17.
-- Also, who thinks of people in terms of measurements? (And, guys, women prefer thickness to length.)
However, there are things I have learned.
Some positions I hadn't thought of turned out to be very satisfactory in real, consensual adult-to-adult sex.
Things I wonder about:
-- Do women really like to be called "slut" or "cum-bucket"or things of that sort? (Have never tried it.)
Maybe other people have other concerns about erotic fiction.
I'm kinda new so I hope I posted in the right place.
Here are instances that I feel are unrealistic:
-- The guy takes the woman through several orgasms, then lets go. Do people really do that? Is that what women prefer?
-- most women I have known absolutely HATE anal sex. Some stories make it sound like that's not true.
-- women coming to orgasm in nonconsensual sex. That seems totally unrealistic and implausible.
-- And men who last through three, four, five orgasms in a row, but they're not 17.
-- Also, who thinks of people in terms of measurements? (And, guys, women prefer thickness to length.)
However, there are things I have learned.
Some positions I hadn't thought of turned out to be very satisfactory in real, consensual adult-to-adult sex.
Things I wonder about:
-- Do women really like to be called "slut" or "cum-bucket"or things of that sort? (Have never tried it.)
Maybe other people have other concerns about erotic fiction.
I'm kinda new so I hope I posted in the right place.