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Ursatysfaction
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 35
United States
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being bi, yes. lol. When I was "straight" I never even thought about it, and even still the idea repulses me with most guys, but with some, I can't help myself.
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Just curious - what about all those of us who aren't dumb, but not exactly geniuses, us average girls? where do we fall on the meter?
you are anything but average. lol. Girls who have "average" intellegence, aren't average in everything. So, it's just a matter of finding how to use your best attributes to please the one you want.
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A woman who is MORE intelligent than me would be a huuuuuuuuuuuge turn on. I am personally attracted to challenges of a relationship. So, chasing the girl is always fun, but I can get bored after a sustained relationship. If the woman can constantly challenge me on an intellectual, sexual, and emotion basis I could live forever with them, and do whatever they wanted me to. That's not to say I wouldn't challenge her or try to be the dominant one 
. Just my two cents.
. Just my two cents.
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Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by Ursatysfaction
I don't know DD. I agree physically she would turn heads, but even then she's nothing special. DD is way hotter than Paris Hilton is, and what turns me off so much is her lack of a brain. She would be like fucking a blow-up toy or something (not that there is anything wrong with that). For me, intelligence and wit are a huge factor, that she doesn't have. DD should just take her place
Thanks Ursatysfaction!
And let the record state that I am very willing to take Paris Hilton's place, provided that the trust fund comes with it, and the menagerie of purse-dogs does not.
... I just had to say that cause ya never know when the Hollywood types might be perusing Lush and looking for a replacement. If I can negotiate getting her wardrobe and shoe collection in the deal, then I'll even release a sex tape!
hahaha I have a feeling you might do that now, just to tease every guy out there. You are dark enough to try it lol.
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I don't know DD. I agree physically she would turn heads, but even then she's nothing special. DD is way hotter than Paris Hilton is, and what turns me off so much is her lack of a brain. She would be like fucking a blow-up toy or something (not that there is anything wrong with that). For me, intelligence and wit are a huge factor, that she doesn't have. DD should just take her place
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innocent
Ever spill something on yourself purposefully to take clothes off?
Ever spill something on yourself purposefully to take clothes off?
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If you had to pick one story on Lush that you could live out, what would it be?
(one that you haven't already lived out)
(one that you haven't already lived out)
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Love is absolutely terrifying. The interplay between all the emotions that love can stir up is what makes us so compelled toward it; its the first natural high. I am under the impression that love is something intangible and eternal. So, naturally, it freaks the hell out of all men. Whether they admit it or not, it freaks us all out, because we are afraid that we are somehow going to push our other (and better) half away from us, and/or miss out on the perfect girl/guy. Being told "I love you" however, has become less hard to deal with as the concept of love is becoming bastardized with capitalism in holidays (Valentines). Some people don't even associate the phrase with the actual emotion anymore, (which really sucks) and most people just say it now. The scary thing for a guy is not being with one person for the rest of their life, but being with the wrong person for the rest of their life. Just a thought :P
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All of these are great ideas, what I would add to it, is maybe he still feels "dirty" for engaging in all of this. To maybe ease his mind a little bit, I would try to have an extremely romantic night and do nothing but the classy date. Then when you get home, start slow then lead to dirtier and dirtier. He might need more then just the physical stimulation maybe? Either way, at least you are open about it, and that's good.
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If you read my profile, you will find out that I am a musician, and in a concert where i was a featured soloist, I got and erection in my tux...soooooo embarrassing.
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I would say let him be over protective now, so that maybe he might ease up later in the child's life. Its a very good thing, and while it may be getting on your nerves now, at least he wants to be an active part of the child's life. Congrats to both of you by the way.
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First of all, I would hope it wasn't that time of month...
Then I would probably just pleasure myself to see how different it was. 
Then I would probably just pleasure myself to see how different it was.
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To me, its hard to actually consider her sexy. She might be somewhat mediocre, but I don't think anyone would actually have an attraction to her.
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Change in the house of flies- Deftones! I so don't listen to heavy metal but that song is one of my favorites to dance to.
see i think that would be hot, and it would set up a hell of a mood.
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I would have to say that this is sort of an unfair question. Its impossible to separate a woman into categories and decide which one you like better. That would be like asking, "What do you like better, a smart guy or an athletic guy?" Just because someone is one of those things, doesn't make it mutually exclusive. A woman can be an absolute sweet heart both in and out of bed, but also be a sex hungry slut at the same time. Being a slut doesn't make a bad girl, and being sweet doesn't ensure a nice girl. No one wants nothing but sex in a relationship, but on the other hand no one wants stagnation. That's just my two cents though.
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There is a large misconception about the BDSM lifestyle. BDSM is not about control; gaining, losing, trading. It is about surrender.
Example:
Horse & Rider : WHO is really in control?
The horse is a 2,000 lb muscled animal - perfectly capable of thinking for itself.
The rider sits atop said creature, using 2 reigns to give it direction.
Anyone can purchase a horse.
Anyone can ride a horse that has been broke to a ride.
Just because you own a horse and ride it doesn't make you a cowboy.
The art of it all is in the ability to gain the horses trust so much so that it trusts you..even when subjected to new, sometimes painful experiences like crossing a river or going through briar. It takes direction from you with full faith in you. This requires time, dedication and self sacrifice on both parts. Force has no business in it.
con·trol /kənˈtroʊl/ Show Spelled
[kuhn-trohl] Show IPA
verb, -trolled, -trol·ling, noun
–verb (used with object)
1. to exercise restraint or direction over; dominate; command.
2. to hold in check; curb: to control a horse; to control one's emotions.
3. to test or verify (a scientific experiment) by a parallel experiment or other standard of comparison.
4. to eliminate or prevent the flourishing or spread of: to control a forest fire.
5. Obsolete . to check or regulate (transactions), originally by means of a duplicate register.
So I say to you Sir, I do enjoy control for the act itself is a beautiful thing. I just wish more people knew how beautiful it truely is, instead of distorting it into something distasteful and vile.
That was almost poetic...very well said...
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I just had sex! lol. only kidding that works better for afterward.
but during, anything by panic at the disco has a great beat for a naughty night.
hahahaha you made my day by saying that lol. I hope I do have sex to that one day hahaha.
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Quote by HoneyBee000Quote by Jason9035
I believe my position on sex is...I like it best when I am with a woman.jyS6NKaGDaFftnKO
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Quote by hislittleslut16Quote by Face-od
Depends on what kind of guy he is. Id want my girl to talk to me. Tell me whats wrong. Even if he cant solve the problem he can support you. And if you discuss it together you may be able to come up with a solution together. It could bring you closer together. And also he wont be worried if he discovers something that youve, no matter how innocent it is. Hope this helps. As i say, it just what i want.
Thank you for giving me a serious answer rather than suggesting what I fuck you, (which is what i expected the general response to this to be) He has no trouble satisfying me. In fact, he can probably go for longer than I can. The problem is even after him and I have just had sex, even if i'm to sore to do anymore, I want to be naughty, I want to sext. I think I'm addicted to writing and reading stories for guys. But my boyfriend isn't very into that. So Idk what to do.
Maybe you are just attracted to being a little bad. If that's the case, having an orgasm would feel great, but not satisfy your desire/need to be that bad girl in you. I would say try having sex with him in public places, or doing sexual things that are a bit . Either way, you DEFINITELY need to talk to him about it, I know I would want to know. If all else fails, then thats what Lush is here for and you shouldn't feel bad (as long as you never full on cheat) for your body craving something.
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Hmmmm. There are so many options lol. Let's see, I will start top and go down. I like eyeliner, but in terms of make-up, generally the less you can get away with the better. (unless you are role playing ;)) I think a tight black dress with no underwear on underneath. Of course, with 3 inch stilettos. The dress needs to have a low cut, (so low you can't wear a bra) so we can see cleavage but still hugs to the curves of your ass. My favorite thing for a girl to wear to bed would be black leggings and corset, with matching bra and panties, with a girtle. sooo hot!!!
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I do this all the time. Sometimes I do it even if I'm not in the mood, because I know it makes whoever I'm texting squirm a little bit lol. 
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bikes are sexyas long as they can pull it off sexy haircut, white shite leather jacket, and a swag<3
I must say, I do have the swag (some days haha). I'm thinking I should get the Harley.
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Totally guilty on multiple occasions!
Have you ever had sex in an elevator with someone you had only known for four hours?
Have you ever had sex in an elevator with someone you had only known for four hours?
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I love to cuddle. And it doesn't always have to be about getting close and horny. There are a lot of nights where i just want to rent a movie, eat some popcorn, light a candle and get close with someone special.
The tricky part is to know when I'm aloud to go any farther. lol
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The green light is when she places her hand on the inside of your thigh, or starts caressing your top button of your shirt LOL
Lol you are very right on that one! That's what my experience has been, and I would add if she starts moving her hand on you chest and gets lower