Throbbing4u's Forum Posts

6 Feb 2014

Quote by ShortyBabe
I was wondering if guys don't like girls that are a little too petite? How short was the shortest girl you've been with?

I've always preferred petite women. Growing up, I always crushed the hardest on the girls around 5ft. I didn't start appreciating taller women until I got older, but I still prefer short, petite women. I think most men probably prefer women to at least be shorter than them. Just as a woman likes feeling protected by a bigger man, we like feeling protective of a smaller woman. It's all biology, but there will always be out-layers.

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6 Feb 2014

Quote by padfootthegreat
Do guys really imagine having sex with all of their female friends, or do they just fantasize about the ones they find attractive?

Only the attractive ones for me. I don't understand why anyone would fantasize about someone they didn't find attractive. Maybe some guys just find all women attractive.

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6 Feb 2014

This is likely a psychological issue. He is likely either a perfectionist or some other personality type that needs to be in control. I don't mean that he's a controlling person - not of others at least - just of his own self. He probably doesn't even recognize it, but the fact that he isn't in control prevents him from being able to release. It's a mental block. He probably thinks about it, subconsciously during oral sex which adds a level of stress to be normal and just makes it worse.

It may not help even if he recognizes the source of his problem. He (and whoever he is with) needs to just enjoy the process and not think (or worry) about the end product - ejaculation. Just have fun with it and let him finish himself with sex or his hand or whatever else works. It might take a very long time, if ever, to get past. Unfortunately, there is no quick fix. You just need to decide if you're happy living with it or not. If not, don't let him know that's why. It will just make it worse for him the rest of his life.

I know that probably isn't what you want to here. It might not be the case. But it usually is. Good luck and just have fun! smile

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6 Feb 2014

Quote by dpw
I usually have 3 stages to an erection:
1. Semi
2. Erect
3.. Rock hard.
However, sometimes I get a fourth stage when it,s throbbing and it feels painful. This only happens when I'm extremely turned on by my partner.
Do any other guys ever get so hard that it physically hurts?

I've had really wild sex where the woman is riding me really hard and slams down on my dick the wrong way... kind of like jamming your thumb. That's a painful erection... but it doesn't usually stay erect very long afterward. haha.

I think I've had what you're talking about though. At that point it's basically a medical necessity to make you cum and keep your dick from exploding. At least that's what I told the woman who made me feel that way ;)

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6 Feb 2014

Quote by padfootthegreat
I've always wondered if a guy would rather do it with a virgin or someone who has had sex before

All of the above.. we're guys, remember? haha. Personally, I'm more attracted to promiscuous women. It's part of the sexual allure for me. So, I'd go with experience if I had to chose. But there's nothing wrong with a woman who is inexperienced. No one should go out trying to get sexual experience just to be more desirable to the opposite sex. If you do it, it should be solely because it's what you want to do - not just to fit in, etc.

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6 Feb 2014

Quote by lindseyaggie
Maybe you're at a party and see her tied to the bed wearing only a blindfold. She would never know who you were.

From the post title, I would have to say yes. From the description, though, I would still have to say yes. But only if she were hot and liked it of course. I've done something similar to this already and would do it again. I know it's bad, but isn't that what makes it so good?

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