Hello altogether

I am Stefan

Just stumbled upon lush because of a good friend of mine. Really nice playground for all sorts of fantasies and to explore.

1,82 m (6″0)
73 kg (160)
Mid 30

Excluding the specs above, I am not into sharing anything more that connects to my real life or exchange any real pics of me and do not expect anything of that sort from anyone else.

Besides that I am pretty curious about the exchange of storys, thoughts, fantasys, secrets, ideas etc. If you are in the mood to chat, want to exchange something you experienced or fantasized about or want to hear a story and/or there is something in the chat that may be interpreted as a cue you wanna talk about more, I want to encourage you to chat me up.

Currently I am mostly chatting, viewing & sending pictures and getting excited about it. Occasionally with someone else in the chat. Private or public - sending / viewing appropriate pics together that aids the mood is a great way to get the heat going - eventually. Or whatever it is at that point.

Also beginning to read some of the stories here. Get's intriguing at times.

I am into many kind of things. What I am not into is sexually to be the daddy of someone/ stuff in any way. And although pain can be thrilling up until a certain degree, inflicting (or receiving for that matter) excessive pain is not what I am looking for - virtually or real. No fun for me at all.
What I am always looking for, regardless of the setting or mood or the kind of play I am involved in, is the glitter in the eyes of my lover. That look, that sound, that tells me, she really likes what is happening right now. That, the feelings that evolve inside of me and my orgasm is what I am after in the end.

If there is one thing I cannot stand while interacting with someone is leaving without a trace. It's a chat and sometimes one gets disconnected for various reasons. But do not leave without a trace on purpose. Make it short, make it long. Make something up or be honest - this is a virtual playground after all. Whatever. But say something before you leave.

Personally I lived a life around pretty lefty and narrow-minded people. While I did not have anyone to talk to about my inner life for a long time, I was somewhat trapped inside my head in many ways - Up until a certain point in my life, where I eventually found like minded people. Or as someone else wrote so elegantly in her profile: Found the "Spice in Life". For that Spice, Lush is a pool of inspiration and a great catalyst. Why didn't I just came earlier to this gorgeous place ...


Oh, one last thing. If you wanna reach out and I do not answer, this is just because I did not log out. Happens all the time. Pretty hard for me to break that habbit. That is not meant to be rude or anything similiar. I hope that info reaches you, when relevant.


let the games begin.

Favorite TV Shows
I do not watch TV, so ...

Favorite Music
Almost any genre has songs that are great and touch me in some way. Although songtexts can win me over, in general I am more hooked by melodies and if I am hooked by a melody, I reproduce it in no time.