I was dating an older woman from work. She was in her late thirties and had a long term boyfriend. I was in my early twenties and her relationship was in its dying days. I was single and easily convinced. It started on e-mail at work, back before e-mails were checked by IT nazis. We flirted, swapped stories and then shared lunches and swapped lingering glances. She drove me home after work one day and was immediately upfr...