Hi
my girlfriend and i have been together for about 7 years and we totally trust each other and are very open sexually. But recently ive been having trouble with a fantasy of mine. i really want to see her have sex with one of my friends in a threesome i suppose, but id just as happily watch. i know this is quite a common fantasy but mine extends to wanting to lick another mans cum from her and get sloppy seconds, so i guess that is where it gets really weird. trouble is, how can i even approach discussing this with her? i really dont know what she will say or how she will react, i dont want to ruin our trust but i think it could really add to our otherwise dwindling sex life. what do you guys think? it's really been bothering me recently and i want to get it off my chest but i dont know how, i think just talking about it would be enough but i know if i leave it it will probs do more damage than me being totally honest with her.
thnx in advance.