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Sir_Jesse
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 46
United States

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There's no way I can choose just one. I'm all Dom, but enjoy many aspects of the lifestyle. It's all about the experience.

Sensory deprivation
Impact play
Bondage - rope, chains, leathers
Wax Play
Edging
Forced Orgasms
Orgasm Denial
Anal Play

I could keep going, but you get the idea.
Yes, but I'm not very active there, well at least not as far as uploading pics and updating my profile. I do use it to keep in contact with some people and to keep up to date on events in my area. Nickname is Jesse5432.
Dominant, Rigger, and Sadist. There's not a submissive bone in my body.
There are some great responses on this thread, and all of them are true. Sadly, yes, there are a lot of fake Doms out there. As with anything else, education is the key. The bdsm community generally has a lot of good people in it, but there are bad apples in every walk of life. Trust is paramount in any bdsm relationship. When entering the lifestyle, it's not necessary to stay out of the lifestyle community. In fact, someone new to the lifestyle can learn about the lifestyle more safely during community events than from some random person they met.

As for myself, I start my journey into bdsm around the age of 18-19. My girlfriend and I had discussed that we were both interested in it, and we began our journey ourselves through online research, articles, and forums. It was a fantastic journey, and one that is still continuing today.