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ShyDreaming
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 38

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To date or to fuck that is the question of the hour... one night stand it is
I'm no expert but usually I just start with that something that is meaningful to me (a particular scene, moment, feeling or line, say for example how the character looked in a stream of light or the facial expression it had at a specific point in time) something that has me fixating, something I really want to get just right. Then I start painting it with words, an interior dialogue, like I'm having a conversation with someone and I'm trying to let that person in on the secret; it helps me put pen to paper (or finger to keyboard these days) and once I have that "scene" I just build on it naturally, it kind of flows, I give it a setting, create a backstory or the chain reaction. But everyone has a unique and personal way of doing it, the trick is to find what works for you.
Mountain view


Spur of the moment adventure or thoroughly planned in a advance holiday?
Everything theses guys are telling you makes sense but to be completely honest sex with friends is rarely just a one-night stand with no repercussions. So think twice before you broach the subject. And heck, yeah, if you're really feeling this friend of yours ask her, that's the only way you'll know for sure if you have a chance, but regardless of her answer don't expect things to just carry on as usual after that. Because they can't. And charming people works for sure, but there's the inherent risk of them misinterpreting things as well as wanting more and thinking you do too. On the other hand, though brutal, I think ***rainesensually*** said it best, if she hasn't given you any sign she's interested then she probably isn't.
No... I'm into the gentlemen so her sister presented no interest.

HYE had sex with someone who thought you were someone else?
Chocolate chip cookie ice cream from Ben&Jerry's and the Almond bar from Merci
Well a charmer is hard to resist so above, and heck might as well be generous: below as well
I go for the practical approach: how early do I have to wake up tomorrow? Early=sleep Whenever=pucker-up sugar!