Hello.. this my first post.

I have found, through "research" that many will suck cock - but few enjoy it. I "dated" many married women while I was married. By far, these married women gave great oral sex (50-70%). Perhaps it was because I showered them with attention, and they didn't get much sex at home. I love romance and passion.

I remember Lisa. We'd meet at a park and share a bottle of wine - and talk. She was married and I give great "ear" - listening to her, letting her vent. Then, we drive to a parking lot, and she would perform great oral -often bringing me to climax twice. We had intercourse occasionally, but she loved giving me oral. Her enjoyment of giving me pleasure showed.

When I was divorced - I dated many single women (divorced/widowed). Of these women, few were very good. I felt most did it as a "chore". "He bought me dinner - it's the least I can do". Some did not want to do this at all... which frustrated me. It may have been because of her own anger or frustration of being divorced.

Yet - I remember Jane. She was an amazing "cock slut". She loved being called a slut. She let me pull her hair and really "fuck" her mouth. I saw Jane as often as possible, though she lived over an hour away. She is among my top-10 blowjobs.

Then - somewhere after I was divorced, I became Bi-curious. I'd look through the Craiglist ads - where men wanted to suck cock - and 99% did not need any reciprocation.

A discussion for another time - men vs women. Men will give your oral sex 10 min after meeting him - which is very very rare for women. I remember two women that gave me oral sex within an hour after meeting. Yes-- shocked me too.

Through my scientific research, I found that 75% of men suck better than 90% of women - and 10% give the best head ever. It goes back to enjoying vs choring. Bi/Gay Men just love sucking cock.

Final thought is women can easily say the same about Cunnilingus. If a man enjoys giving the pleasure- the lady is certainly going to get a wonderful ride.

PS: and I have - in my bi - journey sucked cock too. There is something special about giving someone oral pleasures. Although I would say I am among the bottom 50% in giving oral pleasure to a man - and - medium level for giving a lady this pleasure also.