My girlfriend of three years recently broke up with me; it was about six weeks ago. Through second-hand sources I'm finding out that she is already making out and talking to another guy as if she's gearing up for another relationship very soon.
Thinking about this makes me feel almost sick. I get that feeling of your stomach bottoming out, and I think some anxiety comes with it too. I still love her. Trying to place myself in her shoes I don't think I could even make out with a new girl let alone setting in motion the wheels of another relationship.
But on the other hand, I know it is upsetting because I have no one; there is no girl to make out with. It seems so hopeless. The girl I love isn't moving on, no she's sprinting away with a new man, and here I am alone with no prospects even on the far horizon.
This was my first serious relationship, so I don't even know how to deal with the post-breakup fallout, but it seems like the fallout in this case is particularly heavy.
How do you deal with knowing someone you love is already with someone new?