I guess I would like to see a story idea/development forum. Sometimes it helps to kick an idea around before writing it.
When I first started writing, I wrote mostly lesbian stories, and while I doubt I have the female POV down, I handled it by looking through my female characters' eyes in a different way. Often I had a character who was in a straight relationship, hiding her bisexual side, viewing her boyfriend as too traditional. Or I would explore a relationship between two female characters that begins in another way, like two best friends, a teacher and student, two cellmates, etc. That way, even if I don't quite have the female POV down, I can at least compensate for it by having the relationship angle.