My wife and I have been many times. Been to clubs in Columbus, Fort Lauderdale, Miami, Dayton, Tulsa, Oklahoma City. Sometimes we play sometimes we go home. Depends on the crowd and if we meet anyone. We both like it and both will go back for more. We are very much in love and jealously is not a thing we have. We use it to spice up our sex life and keep things interesting. We've been together for over 20 years.