I like both sides of the coin. While enjoy telling my man what to do, I get so fucking wet when I think of him telling me what he wants me to do to him, myself or someone else. My question is... how do I get him to be more dom? He's a big softy and even the idea of tying me up seems to make him nervous.
He prefers the idea of me being in control, even when we talk about swinging. He likes it when I insist he treats me like a slut, but feels guilty after.
Advice needed