Very much about the mind and experience. If I am going to engage I want it to be deep and engaging. There should be an element beyond the obvious. Make the other person curious and ask leading questions. Find out each other's true kinks and desires.

I have very few boundaries. Not a sub, but can play the role when required. Bi, Trans welcome and open.

Live by the motto - if one of us is going to take it in the ass, we all better be ready to take it in the ass!