Thank you Gav, for this and for all the other stuff you do to keep this site running.
We've never met, but you're a legend.
Nope. Left at 18 with a decent job, never went back. Woulda been tough to do anyway as several of my siblings made their homes there over the next few years.
Indeed, sexual appetite and the acceptance of that appetite covers a wide range. When people meet and connect, the attraction normally covers a lot of ground. You may be sexually attracted to someone, but personally attracted as well. Just being with them satisfies that longing, it makes you happy to be there with them, and to see them enjoy being with you. The sexual desire runs hand in hand with that, but you can;t just have sex all day, every day, can you?
(no, seriously, can you?)
If there is a deeper connection than just sexual attraction you WANT to spend time with them, on the phone, in person, chatting about nothing as though silly meaningless unimportant subjects were the most interesting topics ever. As you find out more you find out how they think, how they feel about certain topics, how they react to different situations. It fills out the mystery of WHO they are, and cements the connection.
It's not a chore, or a duty. Its something you want to do, in order to be close to that person.
Hope that helps.
Flattered, yes. But really the idea of "seeing" my "cock" in action does nothing for me in this scenario. Feels like a no for me.
Yet another in a long list of things I am not likely to ever experience. Can't say it's a turn off.
Never have, several decades now. Frankly I am also puzzled by the behavior. There has to be something inside that either tells them it's okay.
Yet another on a very long list of things I will not likely ever get to experience.
Thanks, John. Brilliant
I will take 232 if you would be so kind
Complete lack of wit or imagination
Well, besides her wanting to have sex with me, I think she should be creative, intelligent, witty, bright and a decent person. I want to be able to talk to her after, and spend time with her, laughing and having fun.
Oh, I think I'm going to hurl...
Fuck, i swallowed my own vomit.
I'll never be able to un-see that
Always been straight. Is it too late to decide now?
Sigh. Yet another mysterious erotic thrill I will never experience, but the idea is so enticing its nearly irresistible.