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Noreasonneeded
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male
United States
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Nope. Left at 18 with a decent job, never went back. Woulda been tough to do anyway as several of my siblings made their homes there over the next few years.
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Indeed, sexual appetite and the acceptance of that appetite covers a wide range. When people meet and connect, the attraction normally covers a lot of ground. You may be sexually attracted to someone, but personally attracted as well. Just being with them satisfies that longing, it makes you happy to be there with them, and to see them enjoy being with you. The sexual desire runs hand in hand with that, but you can;t just have sex all day, every day, can you?
(no, seriously, can you?)
If there is a deeper connection than just sexual attraction you WANT to spend time with them, on the phone, in person, chatting about nothing as though silly meaningless unimportant subjects were the most interesting topics ever. As you find out more you find out how they think, how they feel about certain topics, how they react to different situations. It fills out the mystery of WHO they are, and cements the connection.
It's not a chore, or a duty. Its something you want to do, in order to be close to that person.
Hope that helps.
(no, seriously, can you?)
If there is a deeper connection than just sexual attraction you WANT to spend time with them, on the phone, in person, chatting about nothing as though silly meaningless unimportant subjects were the most interesting topics ever. As you find out more you find out how they think, how they feel about certain topics, how they react to different situations. It fills out the mystery of WHO they are, and cements the connection.
It's not a chore, or a duty. Its something you want to do, in order to be close to that person.
Hope that helps.
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Flattered, yes. But really the idea of "seeing" my "cock" in action does nothing for me in this scenario. Feels like a no for me.
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Yet another in a long list of things I am not likely to ever experience. Can't say it's a turn off.
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Never have, several decades now. Frankly I am also puzzled by the behavior. There has to be something inside that either tells them it's okay.
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Yet another on a very long list of things I will not likely ever get to experience.
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Honestly, it doesn't really matter. Intact is fine. It's more about her.
Although I really can't resist a glance at nice cleavage.
Although I really can't resist a glance at nice cleavage.
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Thanks, John. Brilliant
I will take 232 if you would be so kind
I will take 232 if you would be so kind
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So it sounds like at some point there will be a Cuckold category. Another two cents from me then, for what it's worth (yes, it's worth two cents).
Without beleaguering the root word (the cuckoo bird), the concept of cuckolding is somewhat antiquated, having it's basis in the wife giving to another man that which is the husband's by right of marriage. Back when a husband nearly owned a spouse, it made no difference whether he was complicit, aware, watching, etc. If another man had the wife, she had cuckolded him. As most of 21st Century thinking has moved past this level of ownership, Cuckolding has trasnformed into its more extreme versions, which are more akin to Fetish, Crossdressing, BDSM and Bisexual. IMHO.
So technically, any story in Wife Lovers involving extramarital sex by the wife is a cuckold story. Which would technically leave in Wife Lovers only the "Faithful Wives" stories. And I would propose that is it the Faithful Wife stories that are miscategorized, belonging in Love Stories, or, if having sex with her husband for some other reason or in some other manner, (oral, anal, reluctant) belong in that category, as that, and not her married status, is the reason for the story.
As such, the term term "Loving Wives" is likely a misnomer unless designated, as it currently is, to include all loving wives activities.
LAST POINT - What is the Male Equivalent of the Loving Wives category? When the husband has sex outside the marriage, where does that story go?
Food for thought.
Without beleaguering the root word (the cuckoo bird), the concept of cuckolding is somewhat antiquated, having it's basis in the wife giving to another man that which is the husband's by right of marriage. Back when a husband nearly owned a spouse, it made no difference whether he was complicit, aware, watching, etc. If another man had the wife, she had cuckolded him. As most of 21st Century thinking has moved past this level of ownership, Cuckolding has trasnformed into its more extreme versions, which are more akin to Fetish, Crossdressing, BDSM and Bisexual. IMHO.
So technically, any story in Wife Lovers involving extramarital sex by the wife is a cuckold story. Which would technically leave in Wife Lovers only the "Faithful Wives" stories. And I would propose that is it the Faithful Wife stories that are miscategorized, belonging in Love Stories, or, if having sex with her husband for some other reason or in some other manner, (oral, anal, reluctant) belong in that category, as that, and not her married status, is the reason for the story.
As such, the term term "Loving Wives" is likely a misnomer unless designated, as it currently is, to include all loving wives activities.
LAST POINT - What is the Male Equivalent of the Loving Wives category? When the husband has sex outside the marriage, where does that story go?
Food for thought.
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Quote by Mazza
You mean flip flops, right?
Don't start that shitstorm again, Maz! You'll infuriate Trinket! She takes these definitions seriously! I learned the hard way!
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Cuckolding actually has a range of activities, from cheating wives, Wife watching, assisting your wife as she prepares for a date, etc, all the way to cock cages and feminization of the husband, making him service the bull, making him accept cock in his ass.
Wife lovers similarly includes everything from hot sex between husband and wife to hot wives, wife watching, cheating wives, reluctance.
As a writer who has dabbled in both areas, I personally find the feminization and caging to be a little silly and overdone, as it minimizes the husband. And to me, if the husband is minimized so much then he becomes a prop instead of a REASON for cuckolding. Just my personal opinion, of course, others will disagree. Personally I find the willing self denial of the husband more enticing than the forced.
Anyway, I'd say there is a difference, but Wife Lovers feels like it captures ALL aspects of the wife genre, from faithful to cuckolding slut. Tags should do the trick unless there is such a plethora of Cuckold stories, or, as was the case on the Blue Site, there is an outcry AGAINST the cuckold story, and any story that involved cucks was destroyed. That doesn't appear to be the case here at Lush, where the readers accept or avoid stories they don't like.
My two cents
Wife lovers similarly includes everything from hot sex between husband and wife to hot wives, wife watching, cheating wives, reluctance.
As a writer who has dabbled in both areas, I personally find the feminization and caging to be a little silly and overdone, as it minimizes the husband. And to me, if the husband is minimized so much then he becomes a prop instead of a REASON for cuckolding. Just my personal opinion, of course, others will disagree. Personally I find the willing self denial of the husband more enticing than the forced.
Anyway, I'd say there is a difference, but Wife Lovers feels like it captures ALL aspects of the wife genre, from faithful to cuckolding slut. Tags should do the trick unless there is such a plethora of Cuckold stories, or, as was the case on the Blue Site, there is an outcry AGAINST the cuckold story, and any story that involved cucks was destroyed. That doesn't appear to be the case here at Lush, where the readers accept or avoid stories they don't like.
My two cents
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I heard its coming back but styled. Like in long braids. I'm working on mine now...
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Well, it's not really lingerie, but a pair of thongs with denims usually does the trick...
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Well, besides her wanting to have sex with me, I think she should be creative, intelligent, witty, bright and a decent person. I want to be able to talk to her after, and spend time with her, laughing and having fun.
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THESE are flip flops. Not thongs or sandals. Flip Flops are something entirely different ok? and NO they are NOT mine.
Glad you straightened me out on that! I was having trouble getting them between my toes!
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Your giant internet cock doesn't seem to hold the same opinion, dear ;)
Lucky I held back or I'd have knocked her down! Look out! It's loose again! Save yourself!
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You ARE pretty....pretty fucking hairy! Geez, are you SURE you wrote Natural Beauty? any of those grooming tips sink in?
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Oh, I think I'm going to hurl...
Fuck, i swallowed my own vomit.
I'll never be able to un-see that
Fuck, i swallowed my own vomit.
I'll never be able to un-see that
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Quote by Mazza
They are not sandals, they are not thongs
They are flip flops!!!
And I think the flowers are pretty!!!
Well, I'm no fashion expert, but I think that if you're going to wear socks with you flowered Flip Flop (which is btw, an inexpensive thong, just ask Trinket, she's an expert) at least wear a more fashionable sock.
and for God's sakes, woman, shave your leg!
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Arse!! hahahah
Wakey wakey!
(does that annoy you??)
Are you kidding? he's wearing SOCKS with SANDALS! Of course that annoys me!
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I heard there was rimming at this party!
So I took lessons..
http://sprudge.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/rimming.gif
Damn!
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I heard there was rimming at this party!
So I took lessons..
http://sprudge.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/rimming.gif
So I took lessons..
http://sprudge.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/rimming.gif
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Sadly, another in a long line of experiences not likely to ever roll my way. I guess I'll never know
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Quote by MadMartigan
I think we all, at least I hope we do, find intelligence attractive.
I want a creative freak in the sheets who's up for trying new kinky stuff and a sarcastic, witty as hell girl on the streets who can challenge me intellectually. Talk some politics on occasion. Talk some sports. Talk smack about both sometimes.
I'm with MadMartigan on this one. It's not just intellect, it's wit, and sense of humor, someone who is fun and challenging. A girl who can come back at you and keep you on your toes, and can laugh when you do the same. I think that the intelligence leads to imagination, too... and the creative freak follows...
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Ahem.
My apologies.
Thank you. hope you enjoyed your turn, however brief
My apologies.
Thank you. hope you enjoyed your turn, however brief
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Sigh. Yet another mysterious erotic thrill I will never experience, but the idea is so enticing its nearly irresistible.