Thanks for all the advice so far. I was actually considering bringing it up by way of saying I had a dream about it, and see her reaction. Kind of like " hey hon I had the wildest dream about you last night. I came home from work and you were sitting on the couch with nothing on. On each side of you was a man, both of them kissing your neck shoulders and breasts. It actually turned me on, so I decided to join them and we brought you back to the bedroom and made love to you over, and over again" See what she says.
I also like the idea of watching porn with her, and gauging her reaction. We used to a long time ago, but haven't in years. It was during a porn movie where she actually confessed a curiosity over kissing a woman.
As to someone else's concerns, I would never push this fantasy, if she doesn't seem receptive I will never bring it up again. Don't want to ruin what I have.
Again thanks all.
First off, hello all!
So here goes. A little bit of backround first. I am a married male, I have known my wife for nineteen years thirteen of which we have been married. I am 43 and she 39. We are very happily married, no issues whatsoever. Sex is good, when we have time ( two children). Ok here comes the issue for the past year or so I have fantasized about having one or two men join me in having sex with my wife.AEuFbl620SgjnB0c Strictly straight. I just envision the two or three of us pleasuring her in every way conceivable, having her orgasm over and over all night long. Problem is, I'm afraid to bring it up. I would say we are fairly conservative, we don't typically joke about sexual matters or make crude comments to each other. Now my question to you ladies. If you had a significgant other who told you this, what would you think of him? Would it be a total turnoff? I'm quite nervous to bring it up to her, once you say it, there's no going back if you know what I mean. Anyways, thanks for taking the time for any and all input. Happy holidays!
Mr Met