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MrLosAngeles
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 41
United States
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Not even once.
Do you usually ensure that your lover orgasms before you do?
Do you usually ensure that your lover orgasms before you do?
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Including the pyramid, gold furnishings, and eternal fame? Quite a bit.
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He spread his honey; she buttered him up; the tea got cold.
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Whispers, hot and raw;
Nibbles at the earlobe now;
Honey spills quickly.
Nibbles at the earlobe now;
Honey spills quickly.
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The ultimate compliment I believe is that the story "moved" the reader, whether it's mentally, emotionally, physically or all the above, which is often the case with good erotica. Good fiction draws the reader in mentally with the style and narrative and story beginning, then through sensual detail it can move them emotionally to the point of "yeah, that would feel so good", which in turn can lead to physical response (wet/hard). What -- I think - some people don't realize/accept is that especially women experience many kinds of orgasm/climax/release/pleasure, whereas men usually just associate it with ejaculation. With guys -- not all, but most -- it's that "Okay, I shot my wad. Now I'm done." whereas women's pleasuring can go on and on and on. Lucky them! LOL.
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I have never been abducted by a UFO (wait, they might have programmed me to say that)...
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Black see-thru blouse or dress; that interesting provocative red robe the slave women of Gor wear; kimono; undone jeans and an unbuttoned flannel shirt; the list goes on...
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I don't see any reason why a relationship started online couldn't last. Last however long any relationship started anywhere might "last". On the other hand, I don't believe in this "the One" business or a singular "soul mate". I think in life, we may meet several people with whom we can have a relationship of whatever degree or depth. Forever? Not so much.
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Yes...and a few after that as well.
TPBM once improvised a "sex toy" from their kitchen.
TPBM once improvised a "sex toy" from their kitchen.
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One seventeenth-century Massachusetts husband was put in stocks alongside his adulterous wife and her lover because the community reasoned she wouldn’t have strayed if her husband had been fulfilling his marital obligations.
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Even if the vagina is atrophied, her clitoris should still be doable, right? And her mouth? So shift to oral pleasuring. But, dude, seduce her all over again, every single time. You have to show her you want HER, not just the sex.
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A few more thoughts on this:
You didn't mention WHY you wanted to swing with your wife. Is it just because you want to have sex with other people? Because you want HER to have sex with other people? Is it because you think it will spice up your life, her life, or your relationship? What are your reasons? What's the motivation? Swinging -- that is essentially, free casual sex with sometimes strangers or acquaintances -- is the hedonist's dream state. Would you be jealous of her having sex with men who are better endowed, better looking, higher on the social scale? Would you disrespect her if she was having sex with overweight, sloppily-dressed, men on a lower social ladder rung? Would you still take care of her sexual needs when you weren't swinging at the time? Do you think only other "hot people" swing or do you realize they come in all sizes, shapes, and personalities? Especially if you join a swing club or go to a swing resort. Lots of questions. Have you considered them? Got answers?
You didn't mention WHY you wanted to swing with your wife. Is it just because you want to have sex with other people? Because you want HER to have sex with other people? Is it because you think it will spice up your life, her life, or your relationship? What are your reasons? What's the motivation? Swinging -- that is essentially, free casual sex with sometimes strangers or acquaintances -- is the hedonist's dream state. Would you be jealous of her having sex with men who are better endowed, better looking, higher on the social scale? Would you disrespect her if she was having sex with overweight, sloppily-dressed, men on a lower social ladder rung? Would you still take care of her sexual needs when you weren't swinging at the time? Do you think only other "hot people" swing or do you realize they come in all sizes, shapes, and personalities? Especially if you join a swing club or go to a swing resort. Lots of questions. Have you considered them? Got answers?
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She's a helpful, thoughtful commenter in the Forums. I bet she knows how to actually converse, too!
