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Mobius_NR
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 77
0 miles · Philadelphia
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I'm in the camp with everyone who thinks the issue is depression. One could make points about low sex drive and such but to not bathe etc, screams depression.
Unless...
If your husband is one of those egghead guys who is intensely obsessed with work that it's all he thinks about, that could be an underlying cause. There are scientists whose wives call in to ask scientist's superiors to put them in a cab and send them home because they've been at their desk for days obsessing over some math formula.
Either way, the man needs to spend some time on a psychologist's couch, and perhaps medication.
It might help to drag him out for a weekend away now and again. Many people swear by hotel sex.
Good luck.
Unless...
If your husband is one of those egghead guys who is intensely obsessed with work that it's all he thinks about, that could be an underlying cause. There are scientists whose wives call in to ask scientist's superiors to put them in a cab and send them home because they've been at their desk for days obsessing over some math formula.
Either way, the man needs to spend some time on a psychologist's couch, and perhaps medication.
It might help to drag him out for a weekend away now and again. Many people swear by hotel sex.
Good luck.
Advanced Wordsmith
Oh dear god! No!!!
There are internet hoaxes that claim that WD-40 is fish oil based and nontoxic. That is untrue and dangerous. WD-40 is a petrolium distallate solvent famous for dissolving rust etc..
You do not want that stuff on or inside your body, particularly on or around mucous membranes where it is more easilly absorbed.
Use it on your bike, your lawn mower, a squeaky hinge or office chair mechanism and keep it away from your pussy!
There are internet hoaxes that claim that WD-40 is fish oil based and nontoxic. That is untrue and dangerous. WD-40 is a petrolium distallate solvent famous for dissolving rust etc..
You do not want that stuff on or inside your body, particularly on or around mucous membranes where it is more easilly absorbed.
Use it on your bike, your lawn mower, a squeaky hinge or office chair mechanism and keep it away from your pussy!
Advanced Wordsmith
A rose by any other name... :-) Personally, I like the terms even though I rarely use them. To me the term MILF or cougar could be applied to woman in ways that vary between attractive or derogatory depending on the context. I like to see the positive sides of things and so I lean towards the gentler uses of the terms. Besides, the sentance "Mom I'd like to have a long, loving happy and thrilling sexual relationship with (MILTHALLATSRW) makes for a cumbersome acronym! :-)
I also rely heavilly on a sense of humor to get through difficult days and so the terms tend to lighten things up. For example, American actress Maura Tierney played the role of a nurse who completed medical school and became a doctor in emergency medicine. During one episode, a bratty teenager spoke to his pal (in her presence) calling her a 'milf.' She corrected the boy, "I am a doctor!" and the kid said to his pal, "Oh, a DILF." OK, the kid was a brat but the scene was funny.
The term cougar could have predatory connotations but seriously, if an older woman is attractive to young men, in th elong run that's an affirmation of her attractiveness. Demi Moore had a relationship with Ashton Kutcher that was committed by Hollywood standards. If the two of them could keep each other grinnign for a couple of years more power to them. Do I wish that Demi suddenly became attracted to 65 year old, overweight diabetics? Sure but hey, life's tough. By the way, I love your avitar photo. What a MI__ oh I'd better not say it. The photo is alluring. :-)
I also rely heavilly on a sense of humor to get through difficult days and so the terms tend to lighten things up. For example, American actress Maura Tierney played the role of a nurse who completed medical school and became a doctor in emergency medicine. During one episode, a bratty teenager spoke to his pal (in her presence) calling her a 'milf.' She corrected the boy, "I am a doctor!" and the kid said to his pal, "Oh, a DILF." OK, the kid was a brat but the scene was funny.
The term cougar could have predatory connotations but seriously, if an older woman is attractive to young men, in th elong run that's an affirmation of her attractiveness. Demi Moore had a relationship with Ashton Kutcher that was committed by Hollywood standards. If the two of them could keep each other grinnign for a couple of years more power to them. Do I wish that Demi suddenly became attracted to 65 year old, overweight diabetics? Sure but hey, life's tough. By the way, I love your avitar photo. What a MI__ oh I'd better not say it. The photo is alluring. :-)
Advanced Wordsmith
Want a guy's thoughts on this subject? A lot of us older guys wonder about the same thing. We look in amazement at stunning, beautiful women and they're hanging on the arm of some guy who looks like a homeless wannabe with unkempt stringy hair and discheveled clothing. WTF is she thinking, we wonder? Maybe the schlub is a rock star... LOL
One opinion that I've heard from some of those stunning, intelligent women is that in fact, they are damned lonely because many men feel too intimidated to ask such women for a date thinking that they will be rejected as just 'not good enough' for her. When they're sitting home night after night and some schlub DOES ask them out, they go. Maybe, just maybe, we guys need to man up and not be so afraid to risk rejection and take a chance. After all... all she can say is no and maybe she'll say yes and something develop.
My Mother used to say, "Nothing ventured, nothing gained."
One opinion that I've heard from some of those stunning, intelligent women is that in fact, they are damned lonely because many men feel too intimidated to ask such women for a date thinking that they will be rejected as just 'not good enough' for her. When they're sitting home night after night and some schlub DOES ask them out, they go. Maybe, just maybe, we guys need to man up and not be so afraid to risk rejection and take a chance. After all... all she can say is no and maybe she'll say yes and something develop.
My Mother used to say, "Nothing ventured, nothing gained."
Advanced Wordsmith
It's not only men who want anal sex. A 100-year-old report from Captain Robert Scott's 1910 polar expedition recorded Adelie penguins' sexual behaviors and found similar activity.
Hey, it feels good and is naughty... What's not to like?!? LOL
There's a really good series on Showtime called "The Big C" and it's about a woman (played by Laura Linny) in her late forties who is fighting Cancer. As a subplot story element, her late-teens son has joined a religious group that borders on cultism. In the group he meets a pretty girl of about 17 or 18 who tells him during a makeout session in a van that she is pledged to remain a virgin until marriage.
The final scene in that episode, she rolls over onto her belly and smacks herself on a gorgeous, firm ass and says cheerfully, "But we can do it this way!" [cut to credits] ROFL
Here's the thing, some like it some don't. Some like oral sex and some don't. So long as everyone is havving a good time at whatever they're into, it's all good.
Hey, it feels good and is naughty... What's not to like?!? LOL
There's a really good series on Showtime called "The Big C" and it's about a woman (played by Laura Linny) in her late forties who is fighting Cancer. As a subplot story element, her late-teens son has joined a religious group that borders on cultism. In the group he meets a pretty girl of about 17 or 18 who tells him during a makeout session in a van that she is pledged to remain a virgin until marriage.
The final scene in that episode, she rolls over onto her belly and smacks herself on a gorgeous, firm ass and says cheerfully, "But we can do it this way!" [cut to credits] ROFL
Here's the thing, some like it some don't. Some like oral sex and some don't. So long as everyone is havving a good time at whatever they're into, it's all good.