I'm always 100% honest with anything I do. I DON'T delete text messages, I don't have anything to hide. I don't sneak around and do things either. Never have, never will. But, I'm not sexting either, at least not with anyone other than my husband. On the other hand, my husband is completely opposite. I'm not saying he cheating though, I don't know what to call it.
A broken heart is painful. Especially, being married to someone and that person decides they just love you and not in love with you. They start finding interest in other people, lying, sneaking around. If you weren't willing to put 100% in your marriage and work for something you pledged your life to, how do you expect someone to take you serious? That's just selfish.
I'm a woman in uniform, military that is. And I'm also married to a military man. I have to say I'm pretty hot in my uniform. ;)