Having been a Dominant virtually all of My adult life, real time, not cyber, I have learned and experienced very much, and, I would not have exchanged any of those times for anything. Having felt the specialness of a woman offering her total and complete gift of herself to Me, to guard, treasure, and protect, that gift, is an almost indescribable feeling. Being poly, I am fortunate enough to have experienced that, more than a few times, and many of these M/s relationships have lasted 5 years, and longer.
Helping guide a sub through their everyday problems, giving them the information that they would need to make the choices best for them, helping them through those many difficult, emotional or physical times, letting them know that they were treasured, appreciated, wanted, in spite of everything going on in their personal lives -- and then, when all those times were overcome, being able to enjoy them, without those things hanging over their heads -- it brings a smile to My face, just writing about them, thinking about them, again.
Hopefully. most of you have never had to go through the worst possible time, of losing one of your treasured subs, when she is being taken away from you, knowing she will never return -- spending those last weeks, days, hours, with her, watching her slowly leaving you, being helpless to do anything to make her physically feel better, only being able to try to help her mentally happy, knowing she is treasured, while still trying to keep her sister subs as strong and focused as possible, but still allowing them their grief, knowing they are losing her, -- is a time that I hope none of You ever have to experience. There is no easy, or best, way -- You just do Your best.
I hope this has helped somewhat. and I wish all of You the best in this New Year.