For me it was as a divorced single mom. Lived my whole life to as a completely 'straight' woman with no memories of any interest in other women. Slowly 'seduced', intellectually, by very skilled woman, online. Now, all my fantasies are of women. I am constantly watching other women and live in the hope that I will be seduced. I live in a small Canadian town and am still inhibited.
Thank you for creating this topic. I am very confused about this. Recently discovered sexual interest in other women. Introduced to roleplay by online acquaintance. Imagine my shock to find that I have submissive urges.
Very interesting, to me, forum. When I came in, I thought it had some kind of survey to help decide which I am. Lifelong 'straight' woman. Now single. Recently (2 years) discovered a sexual interest in other women to the point that I no longer date men. Currently my only sex-life is lesbian fantasy. In my married life, never consciously thought about this question, but looking back, I tended to take charge. In my fantasy lesbian sex-life I always imagined a woman seducing me, then pleasuring me. However, a couple of months back, started emailing another woman and she initiated role play. Very strange! I immediately wanted to call her Mistress, please her and desperately wanted to perform cunnilingus on her. My idea, not hers. Any time, any place, any position. What a shock for me. I think it makes me a sub! Guidance appreciated.
