[In a chat room, a 60 year old wife told me the brief outlines of something she'd done much earlier in her marriage. I hope I've captured the essence of her story here.] I was 38, a mother - always faithful to my wonderful husband of 8 years. I had managed to keep my figure together. I still can't believe I did this. Jake was the organizer of the conference I attended at the Joule Hotel in Dallas and, by chance, I sat at...