Early on in our marriage each of us had an extra-marital affair without sharing "who, what, where, when, how and why" like we had during courtship. I was aware it happened when I arrived home from night school and sat down at the kitchen table while my new wife was washing dishes and we were chatting. I knew from the sound of her voice, sort of tense and nervous, that something was going on when I saw a strand of semen drip straight down from between her legs to splatter on the kitchen tile.
I vividly remember asking her if he was a good fuck to which she said he was. Then she sat down at the table and we openly and very frankly started talking...talking about sex with others now that we were married and all the "what ifs" that went with it. While we were dating we experimented with "soft swap" to finally "full" and "open swap" which we admitted we really enjoyed especially watching the other being pleasured. Somehow, though, marriage seemed to make infidelity a up until this instance when my wife of a few weeks fucked the son of a neighbor couple and had his semen leaking out of her vagina as we talked.
There was no talk of a "revenge fuck" or her urging me to have an affair to "even things" but what did start was a regular and frank daily discussion in which we talked about jealousy, who and what each liked with someone outside of marriage and was swinging the answer to would each openly share any sexual activities. We discussed daily things like STDs, pregnancy, being caught, taboos, likes and dislikes all of which seemed to excite and NOT make our relationship a comparison of sexual events as had happened with some of our friends.
We have been married 20 years now, I am in my early 70s and a semi-retired university Professor while my wife has about four years more as a medical information technology supervisor. For several years we have "teamed" up to work with other couples, both married or seriously dating, on virtually every aspect of making love, recreational sex, etc. from soft-to-full swap in which sometimes we participate when things progress to "full-swap."
The topic of discussion this past weekend with four couples with whom we are just graduating from "soft" to "full and open" swap is "creampies." We found it quite interesting that ALL of the men frankly enjoyed ... really enjoyed going down on their significant other and before the evening was over my wife and I started it with my going down on her after two of the men had fucked her vagina full of their sperm. Each of the women, including my wife had orgasms watching this turn of events. When my wife stated she enjoys picking up typically a high school or young college student at a mall, taking him into a department store and fucking him while standing up among the racks of clothing, she said she especially liked coming to where I was at the mall with the strangers sperm flowing out of her cunt to which we would either go to our car or hide somewhere in another department store where I would eat her out of the stranger's semen. One time she had such an explosive climax she blacked out and fell down which almost became a real embarrassing situation.