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Letoria
Over 90 days ago
Lesbian Female, 155
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Awesome signature! I'm going to add it to my verse collection.
Really, the ads per se aren't what I'm getting at. Why are genitals in a story image, while two inches to the right genitals are on full display. Why is it OK for one but not the other? It's really just a curiosity thing. I'm a nurse, and it puzzles a lot of my co-workers that I can't seem to accept that a disease or medication simply is what it is. I have to go and learn all the dirty details whether they're relevant to what I'm facing or not. One of my colleagues told me I was a few degrees off true north -- that sums it up.
Really, the ads per se aren't what I'm getting at. Why are genitals in a story image, while two inches to the right genitals are on full display. Why is it OK for one but not the other? It's really just a curiosity thing. I'm a nurse, and it puzzles a lot of my co-workers that I can't seem to accept that a disease or medication simply is what it is. I have to go and learn all the dirty details whether they're relevant to what I'm facing or not. One of my colleagues told me I was a few degrees off true north -- that sums it up.
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I'm still missing something here, but whatever. I know the rules, I have no problem following them. I'm just... puzzled. It's my nature to delve into apparent contradictions so I can understand the rationale better. Thanks for the explanation. As for the ads, I'll close my right eye and hope for the best.
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Maybe I'm obtuse, but something has me puzzled. I had a story bounced back because the accompanying pic showed genitals. This is apparently against Lush law. 
Fair enough, lesson learned. But what's up with the endless stream of ads showing explicit fucking right next to the stories? I mean, we're treated to one guy after another reaming assorted women ad nauseum (I'm a lesbian and don't particularly care for such things cluttering up my background when I'm here). Something doesn't compute. 
Can any veteran authors clue me in on the seeming double standard going on here? And is there any way to turn off those godforsaken hetero fuck ads? They're very distasteful to me.
Fair enough, lesson learned. But what's up with the endless stream of ads showing explicit fucking right next to the stories? I mean, we're treated to one guy after another reaming assorted women ad nauseum (I'm a lesbian and don't particularly care for such things cluttering up my background when I'm here). Something doesn't compute. Can any veteran authors clue me in on the seeming double standard going on here? And is there any way to turn off those godforsaken hetero fuck ads? They're very distasteful to me.
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I've followed the Supreme Court case on the DOMA (Federal anti-same-sex marriage law) very closely. I am extremely optimistic that that law is going DOWN like a massive oak under the lumberjack's saw -- KA-RASHHH. How frigging absurd is it that my wife and I have been together for 10 years, married for 3, and we still have to file our Federal income taxes separately?
On a cheerier note, how about that Edith Windsor, one of the DOMA plaintiffs. That woman is 83 years old and she is GORGEOUS! You go girl! If this disgusting "law" goes down, we all owe you a massive hug and kiss.
On a cheerier note, how about that Edith Windsor, one of the DOMA plaintiffs. That woman is 83 years old and she is GORGEOUS! You go girl! If this disgusting "law" goes down, we all owe you a massive hug and kiss.
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I'm curious how many of us are in legally recognized same-sex marriages? How many live in places where you can't marry but would if you could?
My wife and I have been married for three years now, and we're proud to say we live in a state that chose to enter the 21st century.
My wife and I have been married for three years now, and we're proud to say we live in a state that chose to enter the 21st century.
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Bear with me, I'm new to the forum, so I'm only just seeing this thread.
My wife and I live in a smallish city in a small, rural state. I came out later in life (30ish), had an established career and family, and a pretty solid reputation in the community. By and large, my coming out was greeted with a big HO-HUM. At the time, my son played hockey almost year round, and there were a group of hockey-moms who had serious issues with it, especially when my then gf (now wife) started going to games with me. They were too frigging cowardly to say anything to our face, but always made snide comments behind our backs, just loud enough for us to hear. We called them The Harpies. The year my son was a junior, he took it upon himself to silence The Harpies once and for all
-- but that's another story.
For the most part though, it's never been a big deal. People are people, small town, big city. 90% want to do the right thing and be decent human beings.
My wife and I live in a smallish city in a small, rural state. I came out later in life (30ish), had an established career and family, and a pretty solid reputation in the community. By and large, my coming out was greeted with a big HO-HUM. At the time, my son played hockey almost year round, and there were a group of hockey-moms who had serious issues with it, especially when my then gf (now wife) started going to games with me. They were too frigging cowardly to say anything to our face, but always made snide comments behind our backs, just loud enough for us to hear. We called them The Harpies. The year my son was a junior, he took it upon himself to silence The Harpies once and for all
-- but that's another story.For the most part though, it's never been a big deal. People are people, small town, big city. 90% want to do the right thing and be decent human beings.
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In my case, I have never felt a sexual attraction to a man, period. Why? Because of the way I plopped into this world when my Mom pushed me out. I grew up in a time and placed where girls who "didn't look gay" where not allowed by their social pack to admit such a profound difference from the norm. Thus I buried my terrifying feelings, did what was expected of me, got married, had a child, and lived in emotional anguish. When I had enough inner torment, when the wail of the Banshee grew as close as the next room, I stopped the game and did what had to be done. I remain quite friendly with my ex-husband, I adore my adult son, and I can't see any good coming from hating half the human race because of his gender. I am because I am.
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Just saying Hi. I'm new here as a member, reader, and author. I'm a 40-something married lesbian -- I'm fortunate enough to live in a state that's decided to join the 21st century and recognize same sex marriages. I'm friendly and easygoing. I look forward to (hopefully) making some new friends.