I am looking for an editor to correct my spelling and grammar. I have learning difficulties (dyslexia and dyspraxia) and it causes lots of issues with my spelling and grammar. I believe (and have been told) I have very good ideas in my head but putting them on paper is where I start running into problems. Hoping I can find an editor that will take the time to look over my stories and sort any daft mistakes I would be making. Its the one thing that is holding me back from writing a lot more.
Thanks.
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Landren111
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 36
United Kingdom
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I take it you have tried edging? Playing right up to the point you are about to cum then holding back, either slowing down or stopping all together, leaving it 5 minutes then starting up again, doing this again and again all day (if you have the time). Gives a rather large eruption at the end of it all.......just don't do it for a build up to sex. I tried it once and only lasted about 30 seconds in the bedroom lol
My gf has mastered adding a little pain. As soon as she knows I am about to go she will rake her nails down my back or pinch or nip me somewhere. Not enough to ruin everything but enough to throw me off a bit and that stops me cumming right away. It also adds to the build-up, like edging, and menas when I do cum its all the more better....obviously talk to ur man first about this and don't just attack him, but if you are on your knees blowing him then pinching his thigh with ur nails or digging your nails into his leg a bit can be enough to stop him cumming but still leave him real hard....might not be everyone's solution but its an idea.
I was in the same boat as the OP so I spoke to my gf. It was something she would never do (sex with another guy) but she did play with the fantasy. When she is working late or at a meeting she will text me a wee fantasy about how the meeting finished ages ago and her and a male college got busy on the desk. Or if we are having sex she will tell me how good I am but drop something in like "not as good as that guy that came round earlier but still good baby" little things like that. It took all the worry out about the whole "will she end up cheating and leaving me" but still added the whole cuckold kink. As long as you both understand there is a line between fantasy and reality then I can be fun. But like many have said before me it can open a can of worms and lead down a path that could ruin things. The key is like with any other kink or fetish, lots of communication, set boundaries and even have safe words for red amber and green. If she tells you she was sleeping with the milk man, calling her a bad girl means she can say more, calling her a naughty girl means she is pushing you so be careful and calling her something else means to change the subject.....things like this will let you two play with the fantasy but still be safe and happy in your relationship.