When it is either convenient or not so, yes! Totally!
My present experience would indicate to me, that NO!
My most recent long term relationship of 8 years came to a screeching halt this past summer. My ex was quite swift in their rebound, and was involved with someone else for some time before it ever dawned on me to ask.
The answer was absolutely soul crushing! ?
The two of them remain in a weekend relationship type arrangement, and I have since brought myself to meet and somewhat socialize with my ex and my intimate replacement on a couple of occasions.
Thing is, it took me some growing up inside to get to that point. And in doing so, I consider my ex to be my closest friend and confidant. We are completely trusting of each other and remain the best of friends.
I realize this example is probably an anomaly of sorts, but I felt it was worthwhile to offer a counter experience to your question!
Hope all works out for you and you find happiness!
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Kurtsii
Bottom... totally bottom!
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