Yes, cuddling is the best. Before or after sex, or even just watching a movie, its a connection
Accents are always very very sexy, what Is yours may I ask?
It really depends on where your going on the date, you want her to dress appropriately for wherever and with something that suits her body, that said heels, leggings, pencil skirt, black panties (common now its classy), nice top and jacket to match.
Of course it isn't, if anything its a plus because I know I'm really exciting her. Just stick it back in and keep going!