Hello guys and gals, here goes.
I've been with my current girlfriend for about 5 years, I'm 24 and shes 21, we've always had a really fun and healthy love and sex life and had no problems up to now, things are actually going really really great! She's just got a promotion at work which meant we had to move which made me working life a bit harder (i drive trains so often commute at unsociable hours) but the salary increase meant we couldn't say no!
Well anyways more to the point, last week she went out with her work colleagues for a Christmas party and I'd agreed to pick her up around 3am from the venue, but she later text me saying she would be staying at a friends and I could get her in the morning. When I picked her up she confessed to having drunkenly gotten a tattoo with a work friend, it is very small and discreet and on her ankle, I couldn't really tell what it was at first but when I asked she seemed a little odd and told me it was her friends idea. We got home and things got heated and I ended up going down on her, I noticed she tasted different but I put this down to her being partying all night, she was wetter than normal but it only made things better.
As the weeks progressed I've noticed she started wearing an anklet that matches her tattoo so out of curiosity I googled what it could mean, I wa thinking maybe it was a friendship thing or maybe something to show she loves me ( i dunno, totally confused) but it actually transpires that this 'design' means she's in an 'open relationship' and its almost a form of 'advertising' herself to other men? It also turns out it was an idea of a male colleague of hers.
What do I do?! How can I know if she knows? Surely she must? What do I do? I'm really confused at this discovery and its not mistaken, the designs are exactly the same! I want to marry this girl but is this her way of showing she has other intentions?
Help us :-( I loved how our life was shaping up, we bring in close to 100k a year and were getting settled in life..!!
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