I've got my teaching materials and I'm already working it - I mean working on my lesson plans.
You know they call me the Professor and it's not because I wear tweed.
I'm with you JamiLin. Plus, why does it have to be about dominant or submissive every time? I'm bossy as hell when I bottom and (I think) pretty polite when I top. It's about fucking, yeah, but primarily about the relationship. I know not everyone will agree with this, but I think if you don't respect somebody you shouldn't be doing it with him, and the way gay men so often want to categorize everybody is unfair to a lot of us. If we want to bottom, so be it. If we want to top, that's cool, too, but I don't think I should have to choose one or the other for my identity.
Whew. Sorry. Got up on a little soap box there. I really don' t know how to do forums so forgive me if I'm screwing it all up. I'm just supposed to answer, I guess.
Sorry, I got excited and forgot to stay on topic.
I'm a top, generally, but it depends who I'm with, and bottoming can be awesome with the right person.
dpw- if I might be so bold as to suggest it (since I'm so far away ;) you're able to reach your prostate yourself, you know.
(Not intended as 'go fuck yourself.' I just mean perhaps you'd like the sensation more if it weren't so unfamiliar.)
Oh, Baritone Boy and Derek - I'd love to be the one to change your minds...
I work from home, so yeah.
What an amazing way to wake up...
I like it semi-hard after it's blasted down my throat.
Before that...I don't think they've ever been semi-hard! Ha ha! That's a lie.
I mean, except for the times the guy was drunk. Or high. Or straight.
Jeez. I'm starting to feel disappointed myself! In general, I enjoy it. It gives pleasure and feels intimate, and that excites me, apparently.